
Originally Posted by
RegGaymer
So a full month has passed and it feels like an eternity since I started this thread.
Long story short.
We made up that evening, went to the pub, talked it out, and she agreed that she'd deal with the badgering ex and that was the end of that.
I continued to live with her and the relationship was fuelled on alcohol and sex, mixed with a bit of weed and the odd class A.
My hench portion meals were bought and cooked for me daily, and lunch prepared for me the night before I go to work, so naturally I was quite content with that set up.
The downside was the constant demands, occasional complaining, and making me aware that other guys were showing interest: running round doing errands / giving lifts for her and her housemate (who had become a third wheel gooseberry always wanting to be involved in the group), saying how I wasn't there for her mentally, and letting me know that her managers at work were making moves on her.
As a red blooded male a lot if this didn't sit too well with me when I was staying at hers all the time. We talked about moving in together as it seemed like a good idea to have our own space and give it a proper go, so she handed her notice in at her rented accommodation while we viewed some places, and she /we needed to find a place by this coming Monday when she is going back home to Iran for the entire month and would be coming back homeless if we didn't sort something - although I did still have my apprehensions about how things would work out long term.
The problem with a woman from her culture, is that they seek approval from their family when it comes to who they go out with, and her over protective brother, who she has a close bond with, has been persuading her to not get with me for whatever reason - even though I never met her family.
So when she started throwing it back in my face last week saying how I wasn't being a generous enough bf, I said fuck that and left. She then said it was over, but since then has been messaging me morning noon and night trying to patch things up.
At this point I'm just enjoying putting myself first again, taking my time back and looking forward to spending December doing whatever I want while I decide how to make my next move.