LOL @ bragging about making 85K a year living in the Bay Area

(which I imagine is close to maybe 60K tops after state and federal taxes)

with a wife and family.....60K buys you some shithole in Richmond, Emeryville...or some other less-than-desirable accommodations

congratulations on your prosperous and rewarding life as a cog in the wheel being a whore delivering packages for 17 years

sounds awesome dude