
Originally Posted by
Dan Druff
It sounds like you can play tournaments when she's there, but just have to notify the tournament director about this order.
Regarding everything else... please reread what I wrote. Your first order of business is to ask yourself if the messages you sent to her in Twitter DM were excessive and/or unsettling. Look at it honestly and try to see it from her point of view.
I think once you realize that, yes, these messages were inappropriate (even if you meant them innocently), I think this will all become clearer. I think if you made a public statement that you're just going to forget about her existence, and you just want to keep your head down and play poker, it would go a long way.
You're making this whole thing overly complicated.