Quote Originally Posted by Dan Druff View Post
Given that I'm old now, I could probably go into a gay bar and not be bothered that much, but I would find it really irritating to be approached by interested gay guys, and then have to keep rejecting them, including guys who might just be making conversation without the desire to hook up. Whole thing doesn't sound appealing at all.
Conversations with gay guys are very similar to conversations with straight guys, or girls you aren't interested in. They're just people. You don't need to want to fuck them to have a conversation. Even in a bar.

tbf though, if I went to a gay bar where everyone else was having a good time and I was running up a tab of coke and orange juice, I'd be pretty miserable.