Just to be clear about something...
I've been trying to settle this debt and ship this money to Hut on PayPal for at least the last 6 months now, but he has refused to take 5 minutes to sign up an account there.
This entire debocle could have been avoided
This notion that I was stealing from him or 'scammed' him is fucking ridiculous
Also, I stated quite clearly in my OP that I was very appreciative and grateful for Huts help. Some of the replies here suggest that I am/was somehow ungrateful, or looking the proverbial gift horse in the mouth. Simply not accurate.
I also conceded that I was wrong to delay paying him back for so long, and have no excuse for it. I should have paid him after my first trip, but after paying back family and buying my Jeep, I was short on cash and opted to contact Hut and ask him for an extension (which he had no problem with)
We spoke as recently as 7 weeks ago approximately on the phone, and I apologized profusely, pledging to settle up as soon as I got my next ship. He was perfectly fine with that, and I had every intention to make good on that until his hostile and threatening PM's started to flood in.
Thats the confusing part for me is that after speaking on the phone a few weeks ago, everything was cool....then suddenly he spazzes out and making threats to 'out' me here literally a few days before I was going to send him a check.
As I said in the OP, I don't respond well to threats, and Hut turned into a royal dick about the situation, almost immediately after we had a recent conversation about the timeline for repayment.
Was I in the wrong for putting him off ? absolutely. I didn't dispute that, and don't fault him for being agitated. I've made it crystal clear from the start that I could have handled this differently.
Bottom line is this entire drama could have been avoided if Hut wasn't so fucking retarded that he couldn't simply sign up a PayPal account. But now suddenly I'm the bad guy and the piece of shit regardless of the fact that I made multiple attempts to pay him
Aside from all that, one thing is definitely 100% true...
Huts pizza sucks ass, and he treats his staff like shit