Let me put it a different way, which is simple and really easy to digest.

Say that Mike is flat broke and is about to be evicted from his apartment and have his car repossessed.

Mike posts on a message board, "Well, this sucks. Unless I can come up with $3000 by tomorrow, I'm going to be on the streets AND have no car."

Jimmy, who is financially stable, reads this, and feels bad for Mike. He makes an amazingly generous offer: "Mike, I am going to send the cash you need, free and clear. You don't have to pay me back. Good luck with turning your life around. I will send my good friend Bill over there, who will bring you the money."

Indeed, Bill shows up the next day and brings Mike the $3,000 which came from Jimmy. Mike pays his rent and his car payment, and the crisis is averted.

The next day, Jimmy makes a panicky call to Mike. "Hey Mike! Did you get $3,000 or $5,000? Because I sent Bill over with $5,000 for you, but I have a feeling he only gave you $3,000 of it, and made off with the rest!"

Mike confirms that he only got $3,000, meaning that Bill stole $2,000 of it.

Jimmy says, "Crap! Okay, I'm going to the police. I will need you to tell the police what happened when they call you, or otherwise this won't go anywhere. Can you do that?"

Mike surprisingly says, "Sorry, bro. Can't do it. I don't want to get involved. Thanks for the money and don't ever call me again."

So the 22Q Foundation was exactly Mike from this story, and that's pretty awful.

I can forgive the community here if they just want their money back and want nothing to do with any further charities suggested by people on the forum.