I'll go first.
I have/I've/haven't/had/no idea females of my age or alive find/found/consider/ed/ me attractive.
Once a month I am approached, usually sitting in my unlocked, open door Brinks Truck
No love connections to date but I feel it
I'll go first.
I have/I've/haven't/had/no idea females of my age or alive find/found/consider/ed/ me attractive.
Once a month I am approached, usually sitting in my unlocked, open door Brinks Truck
No love connections to date but I feel it
"The founding fathers did not like the idea of the tyranny of the majority ruling the country"
Dan Druff
“I don't know what weapons World War III will be fought with, but World War IV will be fought with sticks and stones.”
Albert Einstein
"Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today if a gift
and that is why it's called the present"
Eleanor Roosevelt
You are like 60, right?Originally Posted by limitles
If you're looking to date women your age, the good news is there's a lot of choices. Women under 40 have tons of guys approaching them, so competition for them can be tough. Older women do not get approached by many guys (especially the ones 60+), plus a number of them are hesitant to get back into the dating scene after their marriage and/or long term relationship didn't work out.
However, they aren't likely to approach you, even if they do find you attractive.
You are best off getting on dating apps or dating sites, and making contact with these women. Don't do it when you're drunk, and don't type the weird shit you do on this site, or you will scare them away. Also, and I can't stress this enough, do not drink during the early dates. Some guys can handle it... you can't.
I saw the pics of you and you seem like you're in decent shape for your age, so that should be a plus.
GL
I don't understand.
The first post seemed to be expressing frustration that you aren't sure if women are still interested in you, and then your last post states that guys are "idiots" if they place importance upon dating women.
Some dudes 50+ lose a lot of their sex drive and don't care about being with women. Others maintain a sex drive very similar to when they were younger, and in fact will remain that way until the day they die. Others are somewhere in the middle.
If you are still interested in dating/sex and are happy to date women your own age, you should have a relatively easy time, provided you approach it correctly and don't drive women away with drunken behavior.
Full disclosure.
Anyone here knows something is up with me.
Not crazy and yet I leave a wake.
Recent developments targeted at reducing the wake are proving successful.
My point regarding the opposite sex is a half truth.
Not once was I aware.(another half truth)
The long line of the spurned remains.
"The founding fathers did not like the idea of the tyranny of the majority ruling the country"
Dan Druff
“I don't know what weapons World War III will be fought with, but World War IV will be fought with sticks and stones.”
Albert Einstein
"Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today if a gift
and that is why it's called the present"
Eleanor Roosevelt
Sorry Druff, but you have no idea what you're talking about. I'm 61. I can get as many dates as I want. But finding a woman who is economicly stable, not bat shit crazy, moderately attractive, good in bed, and compatible, is another matter entirely. Pretty much every time I find one and ask her out, she's got a boyfriend. The old saying that the good ones are already taken is true. On the other hand, if you just want to bang chicks and deal with their drama, that is possible.
Good luck Les, and I truly mean that.
Druff gave you some good advice and I can tell you they are out there.
Don't set your expectations too high and plenty of free sex is out there if that’s your thing. Bars are great places IF as Druff said you don’t get hammered, if you can’t do that, I agree don’t drink.
And if you don’t have morals, there are more than a few “attached” women having their own later life crisis and are up for casual hookups.
I would argue with apps and such there hasn’t been this much free love out there since the 60’s.
Note all of this is from 2nd hand experiences from friends and acquaintances, but I see it in person often so I know it’s happening. At times I’m semi jealous but I still haven’t met a woman worth getting divorced over and never will.
Depends what you are looking for I guess. Your list of expectations is long but I doubt you are struggling to get laid.Sorry Druff, but you have no idea what you're talking about. I'm 61. I can get as many dates as I want. But finding a woman who is economicly stable, not bat shit crazy, moderately attractive, good in bed, and compatible, is another matter entirely. Pretty much every time I find one and ask her out, she's got a boyfriend. The old saying that the good ones are already taken is true. On the other hand, if you just want to bang chicks and deal with their drama, that is possible.
If you sobered up, you might have better luck with women.
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