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I have an eastern king (the widest standard bed out there), but somehow when 3-foot-tall Benjamin sleeps there with me, he manages to take up the whole thing and tries to force me into the corner.
I don't know how someone that small can manage that, but somehow he does.
Something is fishy about this article. She is implying that she was having a long term monogamous relationship that involved sleepovers while both her and the guy had small children they were raising? What did they do? Hire babysitters for the night and then hit the hay in motel rooms? Or did she just "date" every other weekend when the dad had the kids?
It seems like having small children at home would be the worst time to be having a long term monogamous relationship that did not involve cohabitation, unless you are cool with having your kids see you have the same guy coming over a couple times a wek to bang, and then go back to his house/life in the morning.
Also, I have a small child that sleeps in the bed (my wife is into co-sleeping and I am a pussy) and the little fucker moves around so much we had to put the bed on the ground, because he is capable of rolling off any of the 4 sides, regardless of where he starts the night.
Most "shared custody" situations still involved the mother having the child 75%+ of the time. I agree for a divorced dad who doesn't have the children all that often regular sleepovers would be a workable option.
But the author of the article was a woman, so something is fishy, unless she had an atypical situation, in which case she probably shouldn't be giving advice that wouldn't apply to her readers anyways.
if the divorce is amicable, the mother would be more than happy sharing the kids equally, as that allows them to have some times to themselves, prevents them from going nuts...as opposed to a mother using the kids as a bargaining tool and depriving the father seeing the kids
i have dated a lot of divorced mothers, in fact i prefer it as they can appreciate my situation eg cancelling date last minute as kid is sick and so on, and they tell me that they would love to equal custody with their ex, but in most cases they are still bitter/angry at them for cheating/gambling or being abusive
its the single women in their late 30s, with great careers and plenty of disposable income who imo are the real nut jobs. Thinking that they can have kids in their 40s, then suddenly realized their biological clock is deafening
And if things got serious and monogamous with one of this women there would probably be some expectation of cohabitation, as no single mother with primary custody of her children would think an 8 year relationship w/o moving in together was a good thing for herself or her children.
I am calling bullshit on the author of the article, who seems to be making a case aimed toward single women with children.
Also, you seem to have an ideal situation for shared custody (live in close proximity, financially stable, get along with ex) that 90%+ of divorces dont have. And even in your situation I bet the kids are spending most of their nights sleeping at their mom's house.
*giggling*
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