Quote Originally Posted by Dan Druff View Post
Regarding being over 40 and male, there are a lot of girls out there who prefer older men because the guys their age are so immature/terrible.

For these women, it's not really about looks, so you can still get a decent looking younger chick in your 40s and even early 50s, without it even being a gold-digging situation (though that happens plenty, too). However, I believe in the 20-year theory. That is, if the girl is more than 20 years younger than you, then it very most likely IS gold digging.
The rule is 1/2 your age plus 7 and it is really dead on if you do the math.

This is why I advocate never ever settling down with anyone until you are 35 plus (as a man obv). It usually never ends well when you do that with a girl your age and you are under 30. The most successful relationships of people I know is where the guy is 10-15 years older than chick. I know lots of late 30's/early 40's MEN dating mid to late 20's and it works out beautifully for the most part. Personally at 37 I won't date a chick over late 20'S. For many reasons. I would however give my left nut to bang a hot 50 year old ONE TIME who wants that young cock so bad it is about to make her explode, definitely on the bucket list. 70 yr old is just gross.