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BCR
Hookers aren't my thing, but any time I have ever seen the lineup at one of those legal whorehouses, there isn't a single attractive woman in their whole lineup. Not even one that if I met in a bar at this age I would take home let alone when I was young.
Any beautiful or even quite attractive girl can find some sugar daddy or start an onlyfans or be with a high end agency and end up fucking one old fat guy a night for $10k rather than one an hour. It is like anything regulated, once the owners, state, etc take their cut, they have a bunch of beat chubby hags working there that wouldn't be a score at some dive bar on a Tuesday night. The whole lineup are women you'd take a pass on if they were free. I recall when they did shows on the Bunny Ranch on HBO or whatever and I tuned it thinking I would see a bunch of hot chicks and there wasn't even a 5 in the building. I would eat a bullet before ever being that desperate.
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In the mid-2000s, Miri and I were driving on I-80 east of Reno, and we saw some billboard for one of those legalized Nevada whorehouses. They promoted a "free tour", so we got off the freeway and did it for lulz.
They actually lined the women up for us as part of the tour (even though it was clear we weren't buying anything), and I found none of them attractive.
The woman giving us the tour was like 47 and overweight, and looked like what you'd picture a 47-year-old living in a trailer park to be. She was at least friendly and self-effacing, volunteering to us that she knew she wasn't young or attractive, but that "some men who come through want a woman like me, one with personality, one they can relate to".
But even putting that aside, another issue with the legalized places is that it becomes such a cold, awkward business transaction. You show up, the girls line up, you pick one, and then you pick from a "menu of serivces" (lol) regarding what they want. Oh, and apparently they inspect your dick to make sure they don't see any apparent STDs.
The whole process sounds like such a turn-off, I can't imagine being able to get down to business with the girl after all that, even if she is attractive.
At least with a regular hooker who you bring to your hotel room, you can kinda sorta pretend it's a girl who actually wants to fuck you, at least until you pay her at the end.
With all of that said, I've never paid a woman for anything sexual. Not once. Just was never appealing to me. A big part of the enjoyment of anything sexual comes from both people being excited and wanting each other, and if I know the girl is only there because I'm paying for a service, that factor is completely missing, and I just couldn't get excited for it.
I'm not saying that sex always had to mean something. It didn't. I've had one night stands before where it was clear it was going nowhere after that, or in some cases, I didn't even want anything beyond that night. But at least for the moment, both of us were there because we liked each other, and that was good enough.
