time to stick a muzzle on your pet todger
Druff Did I start this "Desertrunner attack thread"? NO. I have NOT caused any problems on this site and started two new threads to bring new content and they were made into jokes. If youre going to sit back and let people attack me FIRST, then you should allow me to respond back and defend myself. If you do not like me defending myself, then dont let the attack threads like this one start first.
If your son was on the play ground and minding his own business and then randomly attacked by some other kids...would you hammer your son for defending himself and advise to just be quiet and let it happen to him? OR would you tell him to stand up and defend himself? Because right now youre siding with the bullies to first attacked your son when he was not doing anything. Now if I did start this thread and was talking all the trash, then yes, I should own it, but I didnt.
Druff- Again, youre the police chief here and I also see you coming down on a female rape victim after the crime like its her fault and youre lecturing her. Telling her not to defend herself even thought she did not initiate the attack (this thread). I can see you scolding the female rape victim telling her not to dress provocative and enticing the men around her, because its her fault, right? OR you could just stop the attack from the beginning when you see it happening.
If you dont like this thread, then delete it. Ofcourse Im going to defend myself here. Anyone attacked should be able to.
Druff- I am not trying to fight with "everyone", I am responding to the members who are calling me out. If you have an open mind and scroll back, you will see I do NOT attack anyone first, I only respond after a post. This is the environmnet you created and now you want to muzzle someone AFTER they get attacked FIRST. Its not a big deal to me, but you just dont see it because its the norm here. Look at Marty attacking your mother, by your standards here, you should just be quiet and not say anyhting. By your standards here, attacks are OK and you should not defend yourself as the victim. If youre going to defend your mom, then dont be a hypocrite and let me defend myself here too. Keep the playing field universal and equal to ALL. Tell me Im wrong here.and if you weren't trying to fight with everyone who disagreed with you or gave you advice.
Last edited by desertrunner; 04-28-2021 at 07:09 PM.
I don’t understand your hostility towards me. I was merely trying to offer you some helpful advice. Maybe you haven’t posted in every thread on PFA, but since you became active I would bet my life that you have posted more, a lot more, than anyone else. Some people hate you for that. I don’t. I assume you are just bored/lonely and use this place as an outlet for that. Whatever. I was genuinely trying to help you. Anyways...
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If I asked for your advice, thats find. If not, MYOB or just scroll past my posts. Now you want to impose censorship on someone here and muzzle them? This place is a free for all and I didnt start this thread and another mob dog pile. My your own business or just scroll post my posts and your PFA experience will be nice.
No, I'm not worried about you ruining this thread. Obviously it's a troll thread, and there's no way to ruin it. I also am not bothered that you responded in a hostile manner to jsearles, because clearly he was trying to get on your nerves.
However, I'm more concerned with the non-troll posts you reacted to in a hostile fashion, such as the one from HoodedN. I'm also concerned with the sheer number of posts here -- 72 at the time I made my post to you, which is averaging over 30 per 24 hour period.
As I said to you before, the community hates when anyone dominates the forum. They hate it even more when it's a new/newly active user doing it, who doesn't fully understand the community.
The best approach here for newer people is to read more and post less. The fact that you post more than any other user on the forum isn't a good thing, especially since a lot of your posts aren't well received.
I have tried to give you time to kinda get the feel for the place and understand what the community wants to see, but it's still creating a disruption.
Crowe suggested at one point that I should post restrict you. At the time, I dismissed that idea, stating that either you need to understand the expectations of the community, or leave entirely. However, I'm starting to come around to his way of thinking. I believe a post cap might be a good idea here.
I definitely can't just let this situation go on here. If I ignore the problem and let everything stand as-is, PFA will end up with you, me, and like 3 other people actively posting.
LOL at the last 2 posts. This is just another mob dog pile thread and people feel better when they get to jump in and participate. Again, I never started this thread.
I really hate to get involved in this shit, but DR if you don’t modify your behavior than Druff is going to have to restrict or axe you. It’s pretty simple really, you post too much. You need to run things through a filter before you write them here. Not every thought you have, story you may find interesting or something you find funny needs to end up being posted here.
I know you are going to tell my to MYOB, but I care about this place. Druff has put so much time and effort into running this place, that it’s a shame to see this whole saga still being dragged out. I understand that you feel a lot of the complaining about you is bullshit. But it is what it is.
You can go on Facebook and write your tits off if you want. No one will say anything. But over here you need to show some self control/discretion. I trust if you are Druff’s friend you understand that the ball is in your court. I really do fucking hate having to post this shit. But I feel like this situation is just no longer sustainable.
I hope my post doesn’t read condescending to you. I have nothing but the best intentions. Hope this can work itself out, but the time is now.
This board runs great when people are not attacking each other. Try an experiment just for the heck of it and remove the personal attacks here and you'll see a positive place. Just my opinion.
So this cracks me up, a thread gets started about an innocent person, then he defends himself and suddenly it's his fault.
Last edited by desertrunner; 04-28-2021 at 08:09 PM.
I don't mind you defending yourself in this thread. That's why I'm not raising issue with you going back and forth with jsearles. Clearly he was trying to antagonize when starting this thread, and you giving it back to him is fair.
I'm saying that there are a few people here trying to give advice on how to better fit in here, and you are taking those as hostile, and responding in an inflammatory fashion. That's my problem.
Either way, you need to post less. The posting volume is still too damn high.
It's hilarious that we as a society think everyone can be a dr, a lawyer, an engineer. Some people are just fucking stupid. Why can't we just accept that?
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