I'm guessing my point is mostly that the solution to the race to the bottom is not to go along because you can't do anything else. Work towards fixing it instead of lynching who ever mentions the emperors lack of clothes.
Currently the state that "wins" pays the "losing" states share of this taxation policy. And AOC is actually right that in long term NY gains 3.4 billion from this. The way you handle this now is basically like fixing an addiction by remaining addicted. You need to work towards sobriety even if that feels like shit in the short term. There is no other way. Delaying that makes the situation worse.