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    Need some advice (car question)

    Okay, first a little back story so you understand my situation and can help in my thought process...

    My father retired at 55 in November, he was the COO of an Aerospace company in Wisconsin. He made a ton of money in that business but he wound up sacrificing a decade and a half with his kids and grand kids to do it. I think he started to feel a bit guilty so he took his retirement when he was eligible and decided to move to RI to be close to me and one of my brothers and our kids. up until recently I have only seen my father twice a year and spoken to him maybe twice a month for the last 15 years-ish... So it's kind of like we are friends now more than a parent/child relationship.

    Anyway in March my brother needed some help sheet rocking his garage. I never, ever do this type of work and I never have. I have never lived in a place that didn't have either landlords or a condo association or that had a yard or anything like that. I do this purposely because I know that I have no clue how to fix shit and just prefer making a phone call when things go wrong. I own 2 tools, both screw drivers for replacing batteries in kids toys. I originally told my brother that I didn't want to help him but if it was an issue where he needed some money to have it done by a professional that I would help him out, my brother makes a decent living doing continuing education but he has a wife and a house and all that shit so it isn't that uncommon that money gets tight for him. Him and my father insisted that it wasn't a money issue it was about bonding or whatever, drinking beer, working on a project, all that type of stuff.

    For most of the day I was pretty much the butt of all of the jokes because I had zero idea what I was doing, I couldn't figure out anything and had no experience doing what we were doing. They were genuinely shocked at how little I knew about doing work around the house. The topic quickly changed to if I could do my own oil change, which I cannot, if I can change a tire, which I never have, etc..

    Fast forward 7 weeks to my birthday... My Dad calls me and asks me to come over he had a present for me. I am 32 years old and haven't gotten a present from my parents in years so I was kind of curious what it could be. I went to my Dads and he had a car for me... First off let me just say that I drive an 09 Passat that I bought at a dealership a few summers ago and have zero need for a car, also the condo that I live in only has 2 parking spaces available to me, generally one for me and one for a guest... anyway, the car is a 1994 Toyota Camry, he told me that it was a great project car for me to learn how to fix up. This was immediately something I had no interest in getting involved with, but I figured I would at least spend some time figuring out what had to be done to the car and what it would cost etc.. My Dad encouraged me to sell it once I was done, I have no idea what he paid for it but I would hate to sell it for less than he paid for it because my plan is to just give him back whatever it costs plus whatever I make on it.

    I took the car to the garage that I go to, they went over it mechanically and told me the car was pretty solid. It has 195k on it but the only things it needs are an exhaust clamp to fix an annoying rattle and a passenger side power window switch. Other than that they said everything looked good. The one major issue the car has is the paint. It looks like all of the glossy part of the paint on the hood, roof and trunk peeled off and its a pretty big eye sore.

    I have been thinking about my options... I called around to see what a paint job costs and most places are between 700 and 1k... I have no idea if I will ever get that back out of reselling the car, I did some searching around the internet and was actually intrigued by the idea of painting the car myself with rustoleum. I guess it's actually a pretty common thing and car people go nuts over it... Here is a video I found



    Doing this would solve two problems, it would make the car look nicer and it would make my dad feel good that I actually did the work myself... The only problem is I have nowhere to do the work. Like I said, I live in a Condo complex, so I would have to borrow someones garage / Driveway to do it, also I am afraid I will get started and then say "fuck this bullshit" and the car is left looking worse than when I started.

    Another option is to just try selling the car as it is, I have no idea what I should ask or could get for it and I really don't know if I want to just go ahead and sell it without putting any effort in to it because I think that would defeat the purpose my dad had in mind (even though I think its stupid)

    A third option would be to have it shrink wrapped with Filthy Limper logos and Drive it when I go to the Casino's, I was leaning toward this but I don't know if the cost of the shrink wrapping plus the additional insurance etc is worth it, I have no idea what either would cost me yet.

    Also I should note, I live in an 8 unit condo complex, I am the youngest person here, there are 16 parking spaces, all of them have cars less than 5 years old in them and right in the middle is my piece of shit car and it is kind of embarrassing.

    So the question I have is what would you do? and what should I do? Any advice is appreciated

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    dipyourcar.com lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by RealTalk View Post
    dipyourcar.com lol
    0% chance I do that, when its all said and done it costs 300 and takes 5 hours if done perfectly the first time... may as well pay 700 and have someone else do it

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    You don't have interest in fixing it right?

    Tell him you have no interest in fixing it if that is the case. Why waste your time learning how to fix cars etc if you don't want to

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    Quote Originally Posted by chinamaniac View Post
    You don't have interest in fixing it right?

    Tell him you have no interest in fixing it if that is the case. Why waste your time learning how to fix cars etc if you don't want to
    No interest in fixing it or learning how to fix it, my question is what do I do with it now that I have it.

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    Just change the spark plugs and add more RAM and put it up for sale.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jasep View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by chinamaniac View Post
    You don't have interest in fixing it right?

    Tell him you have no interest in fixing it if that is the case. Why waste your time learning how to fix cars etc if you don't want to
    No interest in fixing it or learning how to fix it, my question is what do I do with it now that I have it.
    find a small local body shop, pay them the $700 if they will allow you to spray it along with the professionals, they will fix any fukups and make it look decent and then tell your dad you painted it which is true

    the car is still worth 2K or even more if you paint it


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    Quote Originally Posted by Rollo Tomasi View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Jasep View Post

    No interest in fixing it or learning how to fix it, my question is what do I do with it now that I have it.
    find a small local body shop, pay them the $700 if they will allow you to spray it along with the professionals, they will fix any fukups and make it look decent and then tell your dad you painted it which is true

    the car is still worth 2K or even more if you paint it


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    Actually a solid idea, thanks

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    nice to get a present from the father every once in a while. and he was probably fairly proud of himself while picking it out for you, so it dosent sound like you care much for the car and putting money in it would be a lot like driving down the highway and throwing money out the window, so i would advise to get rid of it for what ever you can get and tell your dad that you fixed it and sold it for 2k and he would be happy and none the wiser. telling him you don't want it would be a bad idea IMO and may hurt his feelings.

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    Yeah I thought about this actually, but I don't want to lie about it and I also don't want my dad to ask me what I did and me have no clue what to say.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jasep View Post
    Yeah I thought about this actually, but I don't want to lie about it and I also don't want my dad to ask me what I did and me have no clue what to say.
    never lie to your dad. never a good idea. personally, my dad would rather me tell him something he does like than me lie to him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jasep
    I have never lived in a place that didn't have either landlords or a condo association
    Quote Originally Posted by Jasep
    also the condo that I live in only has 2 parking spaces
    Quote Originally Posted by Jasep
    The only problem is I have nowhere to do the work. Like I said, I live in a Condo complex
    Quote Originally Posted by Jasep
    Also I should note, I live in an 8 unit condo complex

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    Quote Originally Posted by Windsor Lockwood View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Jasep
    also the condo that I live in only has 2 parking spaces
    Quote Originally Posted by Jasep
    The only problem is I have nowhere to do the work. Like I said, I live in a Condo complex
    Quote Originally Posted by Jasep
    Also I should note, I live in an 8 unit condo complex
    overuse of the word?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jasep View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Windsor Lockwood View Post

    Quote Originally Posted by Jasep
    The only problem is I have nowhere to do the work. Like I said, I live in a Condo complex
    Quote Originally Posted by Jasep
    Also I should note, I live in an 8 unit condo complex
    overuse of the word?
    I think you should try to fix it up and even if you fail your dad will be proud that you tried.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Windsor Lockwood View Post
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jasep
    Also I should note, I live in an 8 unit condo complex
    overuse of the word?
    I think you should try to fix it up and even if you fail your dad will be proud that you tried.

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    whole lot of cents in twenty cents people

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jasep View Post
    Yeah I thought about this actually, but I don't want to lie about it and I also don't want my dad to ask me what I did and me have no clue what to say.
    you might actually enjoy spraying! after it's painted and you show the new paint job to your dad, tell him "it's all in the wrist action", he will be impressed
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    #1 painting a car is not fixing a car, and considering my stepfather is an auto body guy I wouldn't recommend ANYONE painting a car yourself -one bubble or flub and the paintjob is considered negative value since it needs ANOTHER paintjob: Also I don't think you'll ever get that kind of value back. If the car is as bad as your saying it's going to require sanding and all sorts of prep work before any painting can be done

    #2 I think you're misunderstanding your father's intention here. I think he wants you to drive the car and fix it as you go so you can learn to do little repairs as they arise. Realistically, if you have no interest in this whatsoever just tell him. It sounds like he is trying to make up for lost time and means well, but if the project is just going to make you miserable than it's bad for both sides.

    Option 1 is to just ask him what he paid for the car and try to recoup the money.
    Option 2 is to sell the car without his knowledge and use the money to take him and your brother on a weekend away or something.
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    You don't have an interest in fixing shit, but you do have an interest in finding things you can do with your Dad. Just tell him that. Tell him to come along with your family on a ski trip or something. The last thing you want to do is spend time with you Dad at the expense of not spending time with your wife and kids.

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    Was a mechanic for 40 years and had a shop for 20...

    A Toyota is one of the best cars in the world...If it was stamped "Made in Germany" it'd cost twice as much new...

    However with 195K on it I feel it's too old to invest in...Breaking down in the future and costing you more not to recoup...

    As is it might bring you $1500 on the market...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deal View Post
    You don't have an interest in fixing shit, but you do have an interest in finding things you can do with your Dad. Just tell him that. Tell him to come along with your family on a ski trip or something. The last thing you want to do is spend time with you Dad at the expense of not spending time with your wife and kids.
    If your dad is anything like mine (and this is the sort of thing my dad would do too), I suspect what he would really like is to be invited round to "help" you fix it up, i.e., he wants to bond with his son over something mechanical. Forget the paintjob, just identify a couple of things that want doing (there's always something - if nothing else, you can change the oil, clean the plugs, that sort of thing), ask him to come round and help (or drive round to his place if has more room), do them together and then go for a beer. And while you are doing it, think of the inheritance and smile.

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