So I am getting conlficting info from some friends on this one. Maybe Druff/China/Jasep or anyone else who plays regularly can solve this for me.

Home game, 9 handed, pineapple. UTG raises to $10, call, player not paying attention, 3 calls behind that guy. Dealer throws the flop out and everyone is to throw away a card. All of a sudden the guy not paying attention says "wait, i never acted preflop."

What do you do here. I am hearing you put the cards back in, shuffle, and allow the guy to act. Others are saying you just tell the guy to get fucked.