Originally Posted by
Dan Druff
I would never bother with a 29-year-old virgin, though.
Pretty much 100% she won't be putting out for you until marriage.
If every other guy failed up until now, you won't be any different, no matter what you do.
Reminds me of my brief stint on JDate about 10 years ago.
I talked to a Jewess who seemed decent on the phone at first, but then I asked how many guys she had met from the site.
"I've met 14", she said.
"Wow," I replied, "And how many of them worked out, at least in the short term? How many second dates were there?"
"Zero. I just didn't feel a connection with any of them."
I told her that I didn't like that answer. "Not to put myself down," I said, "But if you met 14 different guys from this site and didn't like a single one of them, I'm pretty sure I'd be #15 if we met."
She then went on to lecture me how you can't just force yourself to feel something that isn't there, and I answered back that if she chose 14 different guys who looked decent from their profile and sounded good on the phone, and liked zero of them, obviously her standards are ridiculously high.
We argued for about 10 minutes, then I realized how ridiculous it was that I was arguing with a stranger on the phone, and I ended the call.
I closed my JDate account shortly after that.