I find all of this to be very unattractive. Maybe it's just a generational thing, as none of this was happening when I grew up, but I have to imagine that I wouldn't have liked it even if I were a lot younger.
Something also interesting is that it's been found that sex is WAY less important to young American men these days than 20-30 years ago. Some blame it on smartphones (it's easier to distract yourself, so you think about sex less often), some blame it on porn (too easy to get, guys become addicted to it and don't seek real sex), and some blame it on the repeated message hammered into young men that showing any interest equals "sexual harassment".
I'm not sure what it is, but something has changed.