Originally Posted by
nightmarefish
You're an asshole.
It is ludicrous to refer to Ellen Page circa 2006 as he/him/his or as Elliot. She identified as female at the time. Kalam refers to him as "him" in the present tense. This is the most reasonable and respectful way of going about it. It's not the same thing as deliberately using the wrong terms presently to be a jerk.