Originally Posted by
Dan Druff
I also never quite understood Hay's relationship with the trans woman Hader. It was portrayed in the article that it was nothing more than a close friendship at its peak, but I'm suspecting it might have been more than that. That weird blog on Medium alleges that a video exists of Hay essentially admitting that he ejaculated on Hader "after promising not to", where he offers to wash her clothes. While ejaculating on someone during other sexual activity isn't really sexual assault, if this story about the video is true, it would indicate that Hay was engaging in some LLL-style trans woman loving.