Here’s the deal on nursing homes from me who knows them inside out. If you have a ton of cash and can afford 20k a month for a quality joint without Medicaid riffraff, then they are ok.
The truth is as long as you keep over 50% elderly in a facility, you can call it a nursing home. The other 49% can be young ex criminals drug addicts, mentally ill folks who now have nowhere to go since they closed down the state mental wards.
It is fucking sad what we subject our elderly to. Keep them at home as long as possible and then get hospice to let them die in peace at home.
If I had a nickel for every elderly person that asked me to kill them because they were dumped in a home shittt.