Lurker gone full circle
From lurking, to posting... and back to lurking
Faggot
Lurker gone full circle
From lurking, to posting... and back to lurking
Faggot
blakes already had his meltdown he cant build a sunken floor theater anymore cuz the last month of nba WENT HOW YOU SAY POORLY
but seriously if you lose to the heat old boy dont come back
Right now I picture poor Lurker sweating bullets imagining the steady hum of Druff's DataBase2000.
Oro y Plata Lurker. Oro y Plata!!!
Unlike you and the rest of the users here, I can't just choose to leave the forum if someone decides to get too creepy or harassing for my taste.
So my two options at that point are to ban the person doing it to me, or shut the entire forum down.
I take very few liberties as owner here, and mostly subject myself to the same (in fact, more) abuse as everyone else, even though I don't have to.
I probably take the fewest liberties regarding giving myself special status/privileges of just about any forum owner out there who is active on his own site.
When it comes to third parties claiming they are being harassed in some way, all I can do is listen to all sides and make my best judgment. Of course, there will often be the case where one side is unhappy with my decision, with the belief I'm being too lenient or too hard line.
splitthis is not and has never been my friend (in fact, she made a post calling me autistic a few months ago), so clearly this isn't a case of bias in her favor.
But since we are doing comparisons:
The_Lurker just posted info about my brother AND posted a pic of my mom, in about a 24 hour time frame.
splitthis has not done anything even close to that, involving you, nor has she threatened to.
Druff, not like it matters because I know it's wrong but just to hopefully make you not worry much about I don't think anyone saw the mother pic. My addy had just taken hold and I was refreshing this thread like a mother fucker during the time in quesiton and I didn't see her.
You were absolutely in the right to ban Lurker. It's just funny because when split cryptically talks about other peoples' relatives, you ask her nicely to stop doing it. But when Lurker casually mentioned your relative, you SNAP banned him. You did it so fast you didn't even have time to see that he posted the photo.
He didn't "casually" mention a relative.
He posted info on a relative yesterday.
Then I kindly let it slide, and didn't ban or suspend him.
Then he made it very clear that he will be posting a picture of my mom when he actually wants to be banned.
I knew what was coming, so I banned him, but he actually got the picture of my mom out before I could click the ban button.
If you are equating this with split making one cryptic reference to Doug Polk (whom you are extremely public about working for), then I don't know what to tell you.
No, I'm equating it to talking about KT's children and sick relatives.
Srsly you called me out for not warning you. I felt bad about it. Now you know you have been warned and you are kinda doing it again.
And now we're back to square one.
This went back months and was basically forgotten about.
Why was this dredged up again? From what I can see, she wasn't continuing to bother KT until this matter was brought out again.
Furthermore, while KT has told me privately somewhat about her circumstances, and I can sympathize with her enough to look past her situation, this wasn't your typical angry-user-threatens-another situation (like the one you dealt with awhile back with that "other person").
This was a case of two people actively feuding, AND there being concerns within the entire community that one of the two might be running some kind of con, so the line between info research for the good of the community and creepy stalking was very blurred. In my case, I wanted to know only for the good of the community, as I had no personal problem with KT (and in fact liked her). In splitthis' case, she both hated her AND claimed to be looking out for the community, which wasn't hard to believe at the time.
I am not excusing all of splitthis' actions -- some were clearly inappropriate and over-the-top -- but this was a complex situation which wasn't easy to navigate, AND split did not have any history of doing this to anyone else in her 10+ years on NWP/Boris/PFA.
Banning Lurker is fair game given that Druff has always stated this site is a free for all other than posting personal stuff against him.
Lol at some middle age woman causing waves on a 7th tier poker forum!
Banning him for posting your mom’s pick is 100% kosher, but I didn’t get the impression he was a parhological liar. And your example about his fixer-uppers doesn’t fly. I knew a couple back in Jersey who were making a living buying fixer-uppers, upgrading them and flipping them, and at times had three or four houses in progress.
Also, pathological liars aren’t likely to tell a story about themselves that makes them look even remotely foolish/careless, such as having an accident involving scaffolding, unless they associate that event with something that makes them out to look like a winner, such as getting a huge settlement from an insurance company, especially one that was outsized for the injury, as that would show how “special” the storyteller was.
And I recall Lurker voluntarily updating us on his progresss recovering at least once. And it was also a story with embararassing details, such as how weak he was walking only a short distance. Again, not a typical glorifying-oneself tale that a pathological liar would volunteer.
But I can also see that he wouldn’t make his recovery a frequently talked aboit subject. He was a star jock back in the day, and his attitude was likely “I want to get this fucking recovery over already so that I can back to full-bore banging my still-hot once-high school sweetheart!.... There. Done.... Hey, PFA! What’s hangin?!”
But, then again, I could be wrong...
lol okay dude. I don't see how any of that is relevant. It's two completely different reactions to the exact same behavior. One you snap ban, the other you shrug off.
Easy to rationalize like this when it's someone else's family being dragged onto the forums.but this was a complex situation which wasn't easy to navigate, AND split did not have any history of doing this to anyone else in her 10+ years on NWP/Boris/PFA.
Anyway, I just found this funny. You don't have to justify anything to me.
all hail Hydra
Originally Posted by DanDruff:Since I'm a 6'2" Republican with an average-sized nose and a last name which doesn't end with "stein", "man", or "berg", I can hide among the goyim and remain undetected unless I open my mouth about money matters.
So, I'm just perusing this thread when I see this name pop up as being online:
I have a feeling this is just so he can play in the the Classic, but man, optics...
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