I had a patient a couple years ago and became close to him and his son. I left that job but was still in contact with both. Dad passed away a little over a year ago and 2 weeks ago I get a letter from the son who lives in another state now thanking me for the generous donation in his dads name to the DAV. I just thought he had me confused with someone else until yesterday receiving an official letter from the DAV thanking me for my generous donation and how it would be used.
I was pondering if I should write a letter back to the son telling him it was not my actual donation but someone donating in my name. My coworkers say I should not do this. I have to say I am both curious about who did this and what was the amount.
The only person I can think who would do this is the sister who literally did shit for her dads care and after he died she got a windfall of his estate. She became guilty about not doing more for her dad while he was alive and donated to the veterans in my name continuing to be anonymous. I did go to the dads wake and met alot of people as well so it could be a rich random.
Say what u say about me but in my job there is no better.