Originally Posted by
Dan Druff
I personally like Ray and the main mod over there (Terry King, who was a '70s/'80s Vegas poker figure, and dated Chip Reese for a few years).
The Facebook group has actually been a huge success, unlike the website, which was the original business plan.
The Facebook group has like 17,000 members, and overall it's very active. Yes, there's a lot of stupid people on there, but that's mainly because of the large number of members. The bigger the online community is, the dumber it tends to get.
I still find the RealGrinders Facebook page mostly entertaining to read, though I do get overwhelmed when some thread has like 373 replies, most of which are all saying the same thing. I tend to tune out of those threads.
One problem over there is that Ray believes that rival groups (such as Kash Poker) are looking to fuck him over and ruin RealGrinders, so there's a degree of paranoia about that. It is true that he's had some conflicts which have resulted in formerly prominent members attempting to start new groups (such as Kash) and "replace" RealGrinders, but the problem is that he gets to believe that anything coming out of those groups is aimed at screwing him, which isn't always true.
In the most recent situation, some guy screwed his backers, and Ray was sure that the outing of him was an attempt by Kash Poker and those with PPPoker clubs to make him and Fox Poker (the private poker site he represents) look bad. I talked to him privately about this on Wednesday night, and told him that didn't seem to be true. I advised him just to let the whole thing play out on RealGrinders, and that it really was unlikely to reflect badly upon him, as he had nothing to do with it. That's what he did, and that was that.
Anyway, it's easily the largest poker-related group on Facebook, so it's here to stay.