So from nowhere, she drops it on you that her ex rang her up out the blue?
Alarm bells going off already. Nobody tells their relatively new partner this unless absolutely necessary. Only bad can ever come from it - as proven with the rest of your post.
Got my own similar experience when I was going out with a Slovakian girl who lived in London - can't be arsed writing that one up though.
a) your girl get's a kick out of playing with her boyfriends' heads. (some birds are twisted and love to do this)
b) she felt it necessary to tell you about the call as there's a decent chance you would discover their recent exchanges, and that would look even worse.
Could be a mixture of both of those things, but either way, it looks like your relationship is only heading one way unless you take a chance and make peace in your own head with the whole situation.
@lotf, that's the bit that baffles me.
She prefaced it by saying "you may not like this".
The point she initially seemed to be making was that she thought she was in love with this guy when they were together, and when they split thought she would never find love like that again, but since being with me she feels nothing like she felt before (better). It was as if she was trying to say that he rang her out of nowhere but she blew him off coz she's so much happier with me.
She never mentioned the car insurance thing, it was only when I called her out that she had to open up.
She is going to cheat on you eventually. Completely obvious. I give it within 6 months that her pussy is getting stretched out by bigger dick than yours. I know you're not used to dealing with reality, but that's just the reality of the situation you're in most likely.
Sounds like she can't help herself and is fucking with your head then.
BUT. If she's being truthful about the bit where she feels more for you than she ever did for him. Then you probably don't wanna walk away from that.
Trouble is though, intentionally or not, she's planted a highly destructive seed in your head. And after a few beers, you're probably going to war with the bitch.
Does she fuck good?
Are you looking for a wife?
It's hilarious that we as a society think everyone can be a dr, a lawyer, an engineer. Some people are just fucking stupid. Why can't we just accept that?
Does she believe the Earth is round?
Or that people did die in Vegas?
It's a little awkward between me and my own girl right now too.
She's 21 and a lot younger than I am.
Anyway, we were sat in a restaurant the other night and a large group of pissed up girls & lads noticed we were a couple and started calling me a 'dirty old bastard', while one of the girls was constantly screaming 'you should be fucking ashamed'.
Wasn't fun. Though it didn't bother me as I'm used to people judging us. But she was totally mortified so we ended up leaving before having our main's.
We've not spoken much since and it completely ruined our 10 year anniversary.
Dude, 99% of English girls are sluts and the 1% that aren't are the ones who stay indoors reading books all the time.
You have to whip that shit into shape right at the start of the relationship and make it clear that it's not going to fly.
On the other hand you always have to come off as if you're 1000% secure about yourself, and that you wouldn't think twice about dropping her without batting an eyelid...even if you do have insecurities a women like that will ruin you if you show them.
Unfortunately you're going to have to either go hard or go home. GL
P.S. I feel sorry for you living in England
BALLIN'!!
The MD is starting to kick in and I'm on my second pint of Guinness.
Supposed to picking her up from work in an hour.
Should be a fun evening.
What's funny about this is this girl is most likely just a paid actress sent to learn all your secrets and destroy your life slowly. You're just too blinded by the pussy to see it. That's how they do it.
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