Originally Posted by
Dan Druff
As far as the over/under is concerned, the over wins by a wide margin.
I've always been very good at talking to women on the phone. I stumbled upon this accidentally at the age of 17, but I improved upon it over the years to where I had a great routine down. Remember that story from 1992 where I banged that girl who called me as a wrong number? There were tons of them like this -- where basically I would get on the phone with a girl in some way, sometimes at random like that wrong number, and within a few hours the girl would be begging to meet and fuck me sight unseen.
You might think I'm bullshitting or exaggerating, but I promise that I'm not. Most of these girls also fell in the "average or better" category in the looks department, so they weren't gross chicks who were desperate for male attention.
It never had to do with money. In fact, I would greatly play down the money angle when meeting a new girl, usually just making it clear I wasn't broke, but otherwise staying away from the subject.
However, as I got older, this started to appeal to me less. As much as I liked sex, meeting for 1-night-stand type deals just started to seem depressing and empty. So I started turning a lot down or making excuses why I couldn't do it. I was generally only meeting the ones whom I liked beyond just sex.
I kid you not in the fact that my number could easily be well over 100 had I wanted it to be, and had I been single for longer. (Most of the time in the past 20 years, I've had a long-term girlfriend.) But it's nowhere near 100, or even 50, partially because I started to show restraint in my later single years.