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Thread: How many sexual partners have you had? The average man has 7

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    How many sexual partners have you had? The average man has 7

    It's kind of dumb and autistic to keep stats on how many sexual partners you have, but you probably know about how many, or if you sat down and figured it out you could probably come up with a list.

    Do you guys think that average of 7 is absurd? Or does it sound right to you guys?

    Just out of curiosity , how many sexual partners have you had? Is it something you try to pursue, or are you of the mind if it happens it happens?

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    I fucked Larry's mom in the ass

     
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tyde View Post
    I fucked Larry's mom in the ass
    Would be astounded if you had less than 40. Question for you would be how many on each continent

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    Oh shit, vegas1369 in the thread too. Another 46+ lol.

    Vegas repost that bachlorette blowjob contest story

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    This thread is bringing out the poonhounds and legends

    Indyrick, Tyde, vegas1369


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    I'm always doing my best to keep my age lower than this number.

     
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    Quote Originally Posted by michael View Post
    Oh shit, vegas1369 in the thread too. Another 46+ lol.

    Vegas repost that bachlorette blowjob contest story
    LOL... I'm sure one of the trolls around here has it saved somewhere.

     
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    Quote Originally Posted by michael View Post
    It's kind of dumb and autistic to keep stats on how many sexual partners you have, but you probably know about how many, or if you sat down and figured it out you could probably come up with a list.

    Do you guys think that average of 7 is absurd? Or does it sound right to you guys?

    Just out of curiosity , how many sexual partners have you had? Is it something you try to pursue, or are you of the mind if it happens it happens?
    in today's day and age with tinder and online dating it honestly seems low...hookup and dating apps have made it a helluva lot easier and less time consuming to hookup...you don't have to go out to bars any more and spend an entire night working a chick who may or may not end up being interested...you can just tinder a shitton of chicks in one felt swoop and have access to chicks who you know are interested in you...the hookup success rate on tinder has to be through the fucking roof...

     
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    Quote Originally Posted by GambleBotsChafedPenis View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by michael View Post
    It's kind of dumb and autistic to keep stats on how many sexual partners you have, but you probably know about how many, or if you sat down and figured it out you could probably come up with a list.

    Do you guys think that average of 7 is absurd? Or does it sound right to you guys?

    Just out of curiosity , how many sexual partners have you had? Is it something you try to pursue, or are you of the mind if it happens it happens?
    in today's day and age with tinder and online dating it honestly seems low...hookup and dating apps have made it a helluva lot easier and less time consuming to hookup...you don't have to go out to bars any more and spend an entire night working a chick who may or may not end up being interested...you can just tinder a shitton of chicks in one felt swoop and have access to chicks who you know are interested in you...the hookup success rate on tinder has to be through the fucking roof...
    I thought it was low too, but then I factored in like those dudes you work with that have never been laid, and probably never will. All of a sudden there's a zero in the average. Like we forget about those dudes when we think about sex, kind of like the invisible women who have hit the wall, we kind of don't think about them.

    But I do think girls have an unrealistic idea of how often men have sex, and that's because of those dudes too. Like I know guys that have their shit together way more than me, better looking, more money, more social, who for whatever reason might be on a 6 month dry spell. Maybe they're persuing other things, or they aren't really out there trying to gme, or they rely too much on socail circle for when it happens it happens.

    My female friends think every dude is fucking like every week. On the reverse side of that coin, my guy friends think these girls are all having sex once a year or something, which is far from the case for most attractive young girls. My female friends usually tell me they tell a guy like 5 or something if asked, because dudes are generally insecure and will slut shame at higher numbers

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tyde View Post
    I fucked Larry's mom in the ass
    I really hope you double bagged it beforehand.

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    7 for my generation, a late 70's early 80's teenager, is probably about right. I've been in a monogamous relationship with the same woman since I was 20 & I'm right in that range so......

    As already stated, with all the dating sites & apps it's probably higher now.

     
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    Quote Originally Posted by michael View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by GambleBotsChafedPenis View Post

    in today's day and age with tinder and online dating it honestly seems low...hookup and dating apps have made it a helluva lot easier and less time consuming to hookup...you don't have to go out to bars any more and spend an entire night working a chick who may or may not end up being interested...you can just tinder a shitton of chicks in one felt swoop and have access to chicks who you know are interested in you...the hookup success rate on tinder has to be through the fucking roof...
    I thought it was low too, but then I factored in like those dudes you work with that have never been laid, and probably never will. All of a sudden there's a zero in the average. Like we forget about those dudes when we think about sex, kind of like the invisible women who have hit the wall, we kind of don't think about them.

    But I do think girls have an unrealistic idea of how often men have sex, and that's because of those dudes too. Like I know guys that have their shit together way more than me, better looking, more money, more social, who for whatever reason might be on a 6 month dry spell. Maybe they're persuing other things, or they aren't really out there trying to gme, or they rely too much on socail circle for when it happens it happens.

    My female friends think every dude is fucking like every week. On the reverse side of that coin, my guy friends think these girls are all having sex once a year or something, which is far from the case for most attractive young girls. My female friends usually tell me they tell a guy like 5 or something if asked, because dudes are generally insecure and will slut shame at higher numbers
    this is possible with careers and other outside pursuits, but let's say you're a dude in your very early 20s living in a major metro area...even if you are focused on other shit I gotta think it's possible you are pulling in at least 1-2 chicks a year...extrapolate that over a decade into your early 30s and you got a lot of chicks...this doesn't even factor in 4 years of college...

    granted my thoughts on this are biased because I've always lived in a large metro area so your pool is very large...it has to be a helluva lot different if you live in some small rural area and your options are limited...

    just think in this day in age if you are an average looking dude with decent social skills (no PUA or anything like that, can just hold a conversation) you should have no problem in pulling chicks and hooking up...

    plus your slut shaming comment is 100% spot on...the dating apps/tinder break down a HUGE barrier that I'm sure floats around in the back of some girls' minds...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hockey Guy View Post
    7 for my generation, a late 70's early 80's teenager, is probably about right. I've been in a monogamous relationship with the same woman since I was 20 & I'm right in that range so......

    As already stated, with all the dating sites & apps it's probably higher now.
    Completely forgot to mention that. Like I'll be talking with my friend and be like I got laid 7 times this year so far, and they'll counter with I got laid 7 times this month. Which I'll counter with, yeah with the same person!

    Serial monogamy probably plays a big part in these averages.

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    More than I have any right to, that's for sure.

     
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    Feel like we should spice up the thread with some stories. With all the talk about tinder and online, here's an online success story from my friend below.

    "Was like 11 pm. Surfed ok and pof, sent out some messages. One of them was an extremely not thought out "So and so rulllleees!" to this girl wearing a band shirt who looked my style. She texts back with a lol. I do a qualifying, you look cool, but I wonder if you actually are, blah blah, do an assumption not a question, looks like you would dig this. She's like yeah, blah blah. (meanwhile I had texted the girl from day 4, turns out she's at a party down the street and wants to come hang out). So I have a legit time contraint for online girl, lol. Tell her I have to leave, but she is hanging out with me tomorrow at like midnight, cuz she has her little kid all next week, and i don't get off til 11 or so. Leave her my number in message and log off.

    So when the one girl leaves my house I notice the online girl has not texted her number. Jump online and message her something to the effect that she's busy all week besides today, I'm busy as well, and we are hanging out tonight after work if she's adventurous and wants to meet up around midnight. So here's my number. You're cute, I just hope you're actually cool to hangout with.

    Within a couple of minutes I get the text. Cool. Compliments and qualifiers. She sends some sexy pics. Go with adorable cute comments rather than beautiful pretty stuff, throw in some qualifiers (I've never really done that).

    I know a lot of guys advocate the just keep it short logistics thing over text. Personally, I think I can gain momentum, especially before meeting the girl, by texting throughout the day, as long as I hold onto the frame that I'm the 10, and is she cool enough to hang with me. More sexy pics, I send some funny shit, and try to do that thing where you mix it up. Funny/Sexy/Charming/Serious.

    So get off work, shower up, grab a couple of brews (we are meeting at a park on her side of town, I'm not really a drinker, but girls use it as an excuse to open up I find). Get there, it's dark as shit. Start getting paranoid about being catfished in some dark park by a guy named Bubba, lol. But then I spot her. She's with her orbiter roomie (which I guess makes sense, she's meeting a completely random dud from the internet at midnight in some park lol). Smile, eyes, friendly with meeting the roomie, her, and she must get a good vibe because she sends him off.

    Hand extended. She looks at it kinda weird, then looks at me kind of questioning. I keep looking with the hand out. She grabs it. I twirl her and then release. "Not bad.". She starts laughing and says she's glad I approve. We start walking around chatting and drinking. At one point it happens. There's that awkward pause about to happen. I just start rambling about things I'm into which are totally off the fucking wall. She eats it up. Giant smile, anime eyes.

    At this point I'm having fun, she's actually pretty funny and cool too. She says something, and I tell her she's too adorable. I can't have people seeing me with her, push her away and start walking off. She didn't run back, but she did do sad voice and face and ooooook. Came back to get her. The vibe is great, making sure to throw in some physical contact, touching.

    It's fucking late, bars about to close. She says let's just go watch a movie at my place. Tell her ok, and we have to hit the bars fast so she can at least buy us a couple of shots. She says she's not a huge drinker, let's just go get a movie. Cool.

    Stop at gas station, vibe is good, I plant a kiss and smile. She seems surprised and also giddy. We walk into a store to shop for a cheap dvd. Escalate. Hold hands, hand on back, just making sure to be physical. She's 100% receptive.

    Get to the house pop in the dvd, probably don't make it 10 minutes in. I start escalating, she's extremely receptive, sex ensues. And bonus, it's really fucking good sex hahaha. I try to up the dominance a bit, little stuff like holding her arms back during some of it. But yeah, really fucking good sex. After, I try to keep it chill fun this is normal vibe. She is in a great mood at this point, and also going with this is normal fun frame. Lay with her and she says, "My bed's way more comfortable. Wanna hang out at my place?".

    Awesome. Get over there, meet her other roomie. More amazing sex, quick nap, then head out. She is really smiley, tells me not to be a stranger. On the way home she texts said she had a great time. I'm probably going to try to keep being friends with her, maybe hang out with her next week.

    So everything went so perfect I start wondering if she gamed me into gaming her, hahahaha."

     
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    The median would be a better thing to know than the average.

    As you said, guys who absolutely never get laid, or guys who are in long-term relationships since a very young age (perhaps their first or second partner ever) will bring down the average.

    I agree that apps like Tinder probably caused the average number to go up, but I don't think it's for the no-more-slut-shaming reason.

    I think it just creates opportunities which otherwise wouldn't have been there before.

    I believe that many women just hate the bar/club scene, so prior to dating sites and dating apps, they just didn't put all that much effort into meeting men. Nowadays with these sites and apps, it's very easy, and they have the power of rejection to weed out most of the awful ones without even talking to them.

     
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    I've had 6 so far, i think I'm with the woman I'm meant to be with for the rest of my life. but you never know.

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    I'm a bit older so the POF, Tinder, etc really came into being after my single days. However I do have a great story that I shared once before I think. I've never been one that could really get off on just watching porn, if I'm not really getting some action and I'm forced to jerk the gerkin, I like atleast some real interaction. I'm too fucking cheap, however, to ever pay some professional cam slut to perform for me. So I discovered a site years ago that no longer exists. It was called Collarme.com. As the title implies it promoted the BDSM lifestyle. They had a video chat room that I would go into and more often than not, some attractive girl would be on her webcam performing for free to entertain. These were amateur girls that got off on being told what to do.

    Anyways one night I see this very cute girl on her webcam....at this point she's fully clothed not doing anything sexual. We chat a bit privately. She tells me she is into really fit guys no older than 25. She asks me for a picture....well fuck this isn't going to work. I'm like 36 at the time and no where close to being "really fit." So I do what any guy in my position would do, I send her pictures of Landon Mark aka Heeb. This girl is in love. Cant stop saying how handsome she finds me. We leave the website and our conversation migrated to Yahoo Messenger. She gets on her webcam and does everything and anything I tell her to do. This was one kinky bitch. We chatted for weeks. She was a nurse and on her breaks would make little videos and send them to me....usually they were of her in the restroom banging her ass with a giant syringe. LOLZ

    So fast forward a few months and she says that she is coming to California for a visit and wants to meet. I know that can't happen or my cover would be blown. So I tell her that I will be out of state on business then but I have an older friend who would be willing to be her tour guide.....all she has to do is blow him in exchange. I said it jokingly but she immediately agreed to it. Two weeks later she was in LA and I met her at her hotel. I brought along a "gift" from my alter ego with a note attached. I told her I didn't know what it was but "Jake" asked me to give it to her. What it was actually was a butt plug and the note said she was to insert it and spend the day with it in her ass. She read the note giggled like a school girl and went and put it in. We spent the day checking out Venice, Santa Monica, Malibu....took her back to her hotel and I didn't even have to say a word. As soon as we walked into the room, she asked if I was ready for my blow job. I met up with her again a week later before she left town and completely sealed the deal. A month or so later we were chatting and she kind of figured out she was duped but she didn't care. In fact we still chat occasionally, she just got married and had a kid about a year ago. So I really do owe it to Heeb for getting me laid.

     
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    Quote Originally Posted by Zap_the_Fractions_Giraffe View Post
    chiming in with zero
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    I was hoping scottyno would show up and break that bubble.

     
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