Originally Posted by
GambleBotsChafedPenis
in today's day and age with tinder and online dating it honestly seems low...hookup and dating apps have made it a helluva lot easier and less time consuming to hookup...you don't have to go out to bars any more and spend an entire night working a chick who may or may not end up being interested...you can just tinder a shitton of chicks in one felt swoop and have access to chicks who you know are interested in you...the hookup success rate on tinder has to be through the fucking roof...
I thought it was low too, but then I factored in like those dudes you work with that have never been laid, and probably never will. All of a sudden there's a zero in the average. Like we forget about those dudes when we think about sex, kind of like the invisible women who have hit the wall, we kind of don't think about them.
But I do think girls have an unrealistic idea of how often men have sex, and that's because of those dudes too.
Like I know guys that have their shit together way more than me, better looking, more money, more social, who for whatever reason might be on a 6 month dry spell. Maybe they're persuing other things, or they aren't really out there trying to gme, or they rely too much on socail circle for when it happens it happens.
My female friends think every dude is fucking like every week. On the reverse side of that coin, my guy friends think these girls are all having sex once a year or something, which is far from the case for most attractive young girls. My female friends usually tell me they tell a guy like 5 or something if asked, because dudes are generally insecure and will slut shame at higher numbers