oh - be careful posting shit about your wc case online. defense attorneys/adjusters routinely will create dupe accounts to see what you are saying. Moreover, all of your postings on sites such as this are discoverable if you are in litigation....Id been avoiding this thread because of the shit that went down with my exwife and I back in 2014 because I suspected it involved somebody from the past and her being attached. Ironically I'm over the bullshit my ex pulled she traded way down since apparently she traded me in for a 'self-employed' mechanic who has a serious attraction to beer and pot (according to my cousin they came over to his place once and dude was already drunk and couldn't leave the pot alone for more then 30mins). Ok that being said I'm glad this story ended well. I would've advised not being a home wrecker its bad karma in my estimation besides theres always 3 sides to a story of a broken marriage. His side, her side and the truth.. Not only that. Trust me when I say this.
You cant go home again in relationships.. Contrary to that bullshit ending on How I met your mother. Trying to rekindle shit from 20 years ago rarely if ever works. I know I tried to hit up with my gf from HS about 10yrs after we graduated.. She was married to some illegal wetback and I was her side guy. Yeah that didn't go well and hell may have been the karma for my issues in 2014. I can totally relate to having marriages that end up fucked up. That ex from 2014 was #3. First time I was way too young (22) and stupid and turns out the bitch used me as a cover for her family because she was secretly a lesbian (she claimed to be Bi.. yeah not so much when she was tagging with the GF more then me). 2nd time got married too fast ( 4 months into relationship because her parents were being narrow minded idiots and she convinced me the only option to shut them up was to get married) and age difference I was 30 she was mature 19 (till she turned 21 and decided she wanted to party all the damn time).. 3rd one well shit. Marry somebody who you think is a good Christian gal went to Jerry Fallwell U aka Liberty supposedly well grounded yeah.. Passive aggressive twat is what she was.. Some may remember back in 2011 I fucked up my back bad the 1st time and ended up having major surgery (this was 7 months into our marriage) she somehow blamed me for our lives being rough well not like I intended to fall down the fucking stairs.. (honestly after awhile I started questioning all the sob stories from her 1st marriage about how her ex-husband was abusive and then her last bf was abusive too.. Shouldve seen it coming..) she claimed I was abusive also went so far as seeking help from a womens shelter group ironically (yeah while she was texting some asshole 4000x a month on our cellphone plan and claiming she needed time to think). If me holding her accountable and expecting her to pay her fair share of the bills because I wasn't making enough and she insisted on moving to Scottsdale which for those who know AZ is the most expensive place to live here pretty much to be closer to her work is being abusive what the fuck ever.. I never raised my hand to her and never even yelled at her until I confronted her the same night she moved out telling me she needed time to think and I brought up her text messages (4000+ to a guy whom I had tracked down through a friend who was a PI).
OK done venting shits in the past I've moved on and a lot happier (relationshipwise at least).. Still need and hope to have the cyst removed from my spinal cord in the next month. Have to get insurance issue resolved which will be next week as my last MD said until the cyst is removed nothing can be judged as far as workers comp vs the cyst (which could be still trauma caused if it shows to be a tear in the lining around the cord which is possible arachnoid cysts on the spinal cord are rare as hell only 4% of all cysts ever show up there most are fluid filled sacs in the lining around the brain).
Oh and in case anybody is wondering. Yeah I'm a glutton for punishment.. #4 and I got married today.. (was supposed to be end of this year when we'd been together almost 2 yrs but the insurance issue and work cutting me off because of them seeing a loophole to get out of WC Claim forced our hand). Seems to be par for the course in my family. My Cousins been married 4x but finally got it right same for his dad who is legally on #5 but married same woman 2X so 4 different ones.. This ones a keeper though. Shes a nurse like me and hell shes already said if I end up not being able to go back to work or have to refigure things after my surgery because of complications we would figure it all out together.. Somebody willing to stand by me knowing I may end up potentially disabled tells me shes rare and willing to be there through anything.