Originally Posted by
Dan Druff
Yes, this guy sounds like a loser, and I don't believe all of his sob story.
Usually when someone claims to have been "disabled" from work, but won't state the specifics of the injury or how it affects their daily life, it tends to be bullshit designed to collect worker's comp. There are a staggering number of people collecting "disability" from jobs that weren't even very physical, yet are walking around actively and looking 100% fine. You will actually find that most deadbeats who skip out on car payments, rent payments, etc tend to have the same "disability" story (and in reality, actually did collect many thousands in disability payments.)
The fact that he is able to live out of a van shows that he couldn't be that bad off physically.
Also, the fact that things "turned sour" with his father is also indicative of a guy who's a fuckup. Most parents have a really hard time turning their kids (even adult kids) to the street, even if their circumstances were the kids' own fault. I am guessing that this guy was doing everything he could to avoid getting a job, his father was getting pissed, and the resulting fights led to him being booted from the garage.
Regarding student loans, I think forgiving them is a terrible use of public money, and isn't fair to those who responsibly paid those loans back. Basically, it rewards deadbeats and punishes the honest people.
Taking a student loan is a business decision. You are taking on debt to learn skills and get a degree that you think will increase your earning potential in the future. You are basically investing in yourself on credit. This needs to be done with care. Some people take student loans to major in commercially useless subjects such as Art History, and then demand forgiveness of their debt when they can't get any kind of decent job with that degree. There's also a risk that, even with a useful major, you might have a hard time finding a job if the economy takes a dive, or if your field of study becomes less commercially relevant. Too many people these days want a freeroll in life. They want to be able to make investments that can hugely benefit them, yet get bailed out in some way if they come out behind. Life doesn't (and shouldn't) work that way.
I do agree that this culinary academy sounds like a complete fraud, and he probably legitimately got fucked in that respect. I have seen ads for tons of culinary schools on TV, and they all look like bullshit. One thing that isn't well known is the fact that most chefs get paid VERY poorly. Executive chefs and head chefs get paid well, but those jobs are extremely hard to come by, and only represent a tiny percentage of chefs in this country. The rest of them -- assistant chefs, sous chefs, etc., get paid very little -- sometimes as low as $11/hour. I'm not talking about short-order cooks at Denny's. I'm talking about assistant chefs at very high-end restaurants. If you are eating at a nice restaurant, it is highly likely that your waiter is making MUCH more than the chef preparing your meal. They get away with this because there are just too many chefs out there, and they are all hoping to make a name for themselves and get the rare jobs as head/executive chef or be offered a piece of a new restaurant.