It's not really a personal matter when you talk about the bet, and book it on the forum.
Yes, some matters should be kept off the forum. If it pertains to someone being a scumbag who doesn't pay his debts, and it is in relation to the poker world, then yes it should be known here.
For the most part, duking it out is basically over. Although I did see two huge Puerto Rican women throw hands at the corner store yesterday. Pretty good show too, and was very surprised on how good there stamina was.