Best Relationship To Have After Divorce

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/vicki-...rce&ir=Divorce

''I have been in a committed monogamous relationship for almost eight years (well, with a year of non-monogamy early on), and he lives in his house and I live in mine. Neither of us wants to get married -- he's done it once and I've done it twice -- and we're not sure we want to live together either.

couples that live apart are happier in their relationship than couples that live together, and they also feel more committed and less trapped. When you live apart, you actively work on commitment and trust; it's never taken for granted. You have time for yourself. And because sex whenever you want it isn't as available to you as it is when you live with someone, you don't let too many opportunities to actually have it pass you by.''


exactly!!!

This might be true... I am a firm believer that hearing /smelling your partner use the bathroom is a sure relationship killer. Saps the romance right out.

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Originally Posted by Vwls

This might be true... I am a firm believer that hearing /smelling your partner use the bathroom is a sure relationship killer. Saps the romance right out.

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especially if anal love was on the agenda

Living together is fine, I just hate sharing a bed of any size.

Might as well just stay single then. Why pursue a longterm relationship if you never plan to share your life with them? I mean ya its nice to have sex on the side. But why not just have sex on the side with numerous women instead? live bachelor life to the fullest not this half assed way. You eithe rcommit to something or not.

The thought of carrying on a monogamous relationship for 8 years with someone and never actually being comfortable enough to move in together seems like a huge waste.

BTW after reading the whole article sounds like the author has some serious baggage. Also the author grossly misrepresents the study about happy relationships (it looks at long distance ones)

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Originally Posted by Sloppy Joe

Living together is fine, I just hate sharing a bed of any size.

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"When your there, I sleep lengthwise...

and when your gone, I sleep diagonal in my bed."

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K4lhPtQB5pE

My lil blond gal pal slept over last night and she slept on a total angle in the bed. I kept pushing her over but gave up around 4am. I put my pillow down at the other end of the bed. Never had someone sleep so fucked up as her. She is all over the damn place.

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Originally Posted by fluffer

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/vicki-...rce&ir=Divorce

''I have been in a committed monogamous relationship for almost eight years (well, with a year of non-monogamy early on), and he lives in his house and I live in mine. Neither of us wants to get married -- he's done it once and I've done it twice -- and we're not sure we want to live together either.

couples that live apart are happier in their relationship than couples that live together, and they also feel more committed and less trapped. When you live apart, you actively work on commitment and trust; it's never taken for granted. You have time for yourself. And because sex whenever you want it isn't as available to you as it is when you live with someone, you don't let too many opportunities to actually have it pass you by.''


exactly!!!

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The fact that this person is twice divorced and is seeing someone who is also divorced probably means they should STFU about relationships and marriages because they obviously fucking suck at both. Maybe marriage isn't their problem. Maybe they are just horrible people who nobody wants to be married too. That article is like a guy who has crashed his car five times giving tips on safe driving. You obviously suck at marriages, so why the fuck are you giving advice on them?

look, its not for everyone, it also depends at what stage in your life you are at. It suits me perfectly as i have 2 kids, 9 and 6 who are my number one priority...geez, i even live on the same street as them. I even looked after them at the exes house the other day while she was away lol.

Bottom line is that i enjoy my own space, even my own company, but doesn't mean that a woman wont stay over for a night or two

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Bottom line is that i enjoy my own space, even my own company, but doesn't mean that a woman wont stay over for a night or two

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Since when does somebody have to have a vagina to sleep over at your place? I thought you pretty much liked everything with a moist hole.

What about the time honoured mortician - dead spouse relationship, where the person responsible for preparing the body can basically have at it prior to the funeral and also paint on the insane eyebrows on the bitch

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Originally Posted by Anal_Hershiser

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Originally Posted by fluffer

Bottom line is that i enjoy my own space, even my own company, but doesn't mean that a woman wont stay over for a night or two

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Since when does somebody have to have a vagina to sleep over at your place? I thought you pretty much liked everything with a moist hole.

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haha never ever had any guys over my house, just women

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Originally Posted by Anal_Hershiser

Since when does somebody have to have a vagina to sleep over at your place? I thought you pretty much liked everything with a moist hole.

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haha never ever had any guys over my house, just women

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So, do you only blow guys on the side? I mean, do your kids and ex wife know you are a peter puffer?

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Originally Posted by fluffer

haha never ever had any guys over my house, just women

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So, do you only blow guys on the side? I mean, do your kids and ex wife know you are a peter puffer?

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depends how freaky im feeling. and the ex know how freaky i can get

only into women lately lol seeing a 43yr milf who has 2 gorgeous daughters who have been flirting with me, with the youngest one asking if i could personally train her

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Originally Posted by fluffer

haha never ever had any guys over my house, just women

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So, do you only blow guys on the side? I mean, do your kids and ex wife know you are a peter puffer?

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So, do you only blow guys on the side? I mean, do your kids and ex wife know you are a peter puffer?

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depends how freaky im feeling. and the ex know how freaky i can get

only into women lately lol seeing a 43yr milf who has 2 gorgeous daughters who have been flirting with me, with the youngest one asking if i could personally train her

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You're wife knows you can be freaky, but does she know you've sucked 50 feet worth of cock? You're kids don't know at all?

Dante was pretty upset when he heard his gf had sucked 37 dicks-

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=94wGndbOIPk

I wonder how he would have felt had he found out his dad sucked 100.

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Originally Posted by fluffer

depends how freaky im feeling. and the ex know how freaky i can get

only into women lately lol seeing a 43yr milf who has 2 gorgeous daughters who have been flirting with me, with the youngest one asking if i could personally train her

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You're wife knows you can be freaky, but does she know you've sucked 50 feet worth of cock? You're kids don't know at all?

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only 50? *giggling*

women tend to be more concerned with how many women i have been with

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Originally Posted by Anal_Hershiser

You're wife knows you can be freaky, but does she know you've sucked 50 feet worth of cock? You're kids don't know at all?

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only 50? *giggling*

women tend to be more concerned with how many women i have been with

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I thought that was probably a low estimate.

Oh, those poor, poor unsuspecting women.

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Originally Posted by vegas1369

Oh, those poor, poor unsuspecting women.

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im quite open about my ''freakiness'', well, i give them an idea about it lol

surprisingly women tend to be fascinated and appreciate my honestly...admittingly the women im attracted to tend to be the uninhibited types

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So, do you only blow guys on the side? I mean, do your kids and ex wife know you are a peter puffer?

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depends how freaky im feeling. and the ex know how freaky i can get

only into women lately lol seeing a 43yr milf who has 2 gorgeous daughters who have been flirting with me, with the youngest one asking if i could personally train her

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Train her to do what, suck a good dick?

fact:

women like gay men

women like watch gay men go at it

women like watching monkeys go at it

women get upset when gay mans behavior turns on them

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Originally Posted by fluffer

depends how freaky im feeling. and the ex know how freaky i can get

only into women lately lol seeing a 43yr milf who has 2 gorgeous daughters who have been flirting with me, with the youngest one asking if i could personally train her

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Train her to do what, suck a good dick?

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do i have to spell it out for you *rolling eyes*

 

wants to blow me while i spot her during bench

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Originally Posted by mulva

fact:

women like gay men

women like watch gay men go at it

women like watching monkeys go at it

women get upset when gay mans behavior turns on them

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more the minority, and the men have to be in good shape...no bears or otters

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Originally Posted by fluffer

depends how freaky im feeling. and the ex know how freaky i can get

only into women lately lol seeing a 43yr milf who has 2 gorgeous daughters who have been flirting with me, with the youngest one asking if i could personally train her

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Train her to do what, suck a good dick?

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Originally Posted by Sloppy Joe

Living together is fine, I just hate sharing a bed of any size.

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I have an eastern king (the widest standard bed out there), but somehow when 3-foot-tall Benjamin sleeps there with me, he manages to take up the whole thing and tries to force me into the corner.

I don't know how someone that small can manage that, but somehow he does.

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Originally Posted by Sloppy Joe

Living together is fine, I just hate sharing a bed of any size.

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I have an eastern king (the widest standard bed out there), but somehow when 3-foot-tall Benjamin sleeps there with me, he manages to take up the whole thing and tries to force me into the corner.

I don't know how someone that small can manage that, but somehow he does.

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Something is fishy about this article. She is implying that she was having a long term monogamous relationship that involved sleepovers while both her and the guy had small children they were raising? What did they do? Hire babysitters for the night and then hit the hay in motel rooms? Or did she just "date" every other weekend when the dad had the kids?

It seems like having small children at home would be the worst time to be having a long term monogamous relationship that did not involve cohabitation, unless you are cool with having your kids see you have the same guy coming over a couple times a wek to bang, and then go back to his house/life in the morning.

Also, I have a small child that sleeps in the bed (my wife is into co-sleeping and I am a pussy) and the little fucker moves around so much we had to put the bed on the ground, because he is capable of rolling off any of the 4 sides, regardless of where he starts the night.

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Something is fishy about this article. She is implying that she was having a long term monogamous relationship that involved sleepovers while both her and the guy had small children they were raising? What did they do? Hire babysitters for the night and then hit the hay in motel rooms? Or did she just "date" every other weekend when the dad had the kids?

It seems like having small children at home would be the worst time to be having a long term monogamous relationship that did not involve cohabitation, unless you are cool with having your kids see you have the same guy coming over a couple times a wek to bang, and then go back to his house/life in the morning.

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shared custody!!!!

 

*shaking head*

Most "shared custody" situations still involved the mother having the child 75%+ of the time. I agree for a divorced dad who doesn't have the children all that often regular sleepovers would be a workable option.

But the author of the article was a woman, so something is fishy, unless she had an atypical situation, in which case she probably shouldn't be giving advice that wouldn't apply to her readers anyways.

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Originally Posted by verminaard

Most "shared custody" situations still involved the mother having the child 75%+ of the time. I agree for a divorced dad who doesn't have the children all that often regular sleepovers would be a workable option.

But the author of the article was a woman, so something is fishy, unless she had an atypical situation, in which case she probably shouldn't be giving advice that wouldn't apply to her readers anyways.

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if the divorce is amicable, the mother would be more than happy sharing the kids equally, as that allows them to have some times to themselves, prevents them from going nuts...as opposed to a mother using the kids as a bargaining tool and depriving the father seeing the kids

i have dated a lot of divorced mothers, in fact i prefer it as they can appreciate my situation eg cancelling date last minute as kid is sick and so on, and they tell me that they would love to equal custody with their ex, but in most cases they are still bitter/angry at them for cheating/gambling or being abusive

its the single women in their late 30s, with great careers and plenty of disposable income who imo are the real nut jobs. Thinking that they can have kids in their 40s, then suddenly realized their biological clock is deafening

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Originally Posted by fluffer

i have dated a lot of divorced mothers, in fact i prefer it as they can appreciate my situation eg cancelling date last minute as kid is sick and so on, and they tell me that they would love to equal custody with their ex, but in most cases they are still bitter/angry at them for cheating/gambling or being abusive

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And if things got serious and monogamous with one of this women there would probably be some expectation of cohabitation, as no single mother with primary custody of her children would think an 8 year relationship w/o moving in together was a good thing for herself or her children.

I am calling bullshit on the author of the article, who seems to be making a case aimed toward single women with children.

Also, you seem to have an ideal situation for shared custody (live in close proximity, financially stable, get along with ex) that 90%+ of divorces dont have. And even in your situation I bet the kids are spending most of their nights sleeping at their mom's house.

*giggling*

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Originally Posted by Sloppy Joe

*giggling*

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ong i think you're onto something here! JOEY CRUDTIER IS FLUFFER!