Obviously I know Domestic Violence is the wrong answer.....
So.. i'm asking a bunch of you poker minds, so called 'critical thinkers' here what is your best fucking play here!
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Obviously I know Domestic Violence is the wrong answer.....
So.. i'm asking a bunch of you poker minds, so called 'critical thinkers' here what is your best fucking play here!
Move the fuck on
I don't understand the question.Quote:
Originally Posted by garrett
What is the problem with the relationship?
You spend 3 years with this woman, when we met she had a 3 month old baby, who is now 3.5.... She also had twin 5 year olds (now 8) and we were so close, we moved in together immediately. That led to everyday me helping raise her girls, her and I were so happy for so long. Her ex the baby's dad has split bc he was beating her. Her never came after me, he knew I was raising his baby. Whether it was because he couldn't afford to or just didn't care that doesn't matter.Quote:
Originally Posted by Dan DruffI don't understand the question.Quote:
Originally Posted by garrett
What is the problem with the relationship?
We lived together for the past 3 years, the 3 year old im the only guy she knows and she thinks im her father which is important because these recent erratic decisions are so weird She met a guy who I didn't have a clue about ,and her mother and father and I still talk. The last 2 months were different, she was on her phone all day everyday and I argued with her about it (facebook messenger), but I never did the thing most guys maybe should do... Look at your girls messages, because sometimes id bet there is some guy in there courting her. I had no clue this was even going on, it totally came by surprise and we lived together, took care of her 3 girls together, like my own I dont understand how a person can be so evil.
I am going to be smart about this, and there is much much more then this but I have to go slowly, ill reply with more after you all respond to this much please
I care about them little girls because heres a teaser **guys shes with has very serious charges against a child** (ill link it later if its legal)
GTFO and run for the hills ... you can't make a hoe a housewifeQuote:
Originally Posted by garrettYou spend 3 years with this woman, when we met she had a 3 month old baby, who is now 3.5.... She also had twin 5 year olds (now 8) and we were so close, we moved in together immediately. That led to everyday me helping raise her girls, her and I were so happy for so long. Her ex the baby's dad has split bc he was beating her. Her never came after me, he knew I was raising his baby. Whether it was because he couldn't afford to or just didn't care that doesn't matter.Quote:
Originally Posted by Dan Druff
We lived together for the past 3 years, the 3 year old im the only guy she knows and she thinks im her father which is important because these recent erratic decisions are so weird She met a guy who I didn't have a clue about ,and her mother and father and I still talk. The last 2 months were different, she was on her phone all day everyday and I argued with her about it (facebook messenger), but I never did the thing most guys maybe should do... Look at your girls messages, because sometimes id bet there is some guy in there courting her. I had no clue this was even going on, it totally came by surprise and we lived together, took care of her 3 girls together, like my own I dont understand how a person can be so evil.
I am going to be smart about this, and there is much much more then this but I have to go slowly, ill reply with more after you all respond to this much please
I care about them little girls because heres a teaser **guys shes with has very serious charges against a child** (ill link it later if its legal)
A straightjacket will stop her constant texting.
Are we sure domestic violence isn't the answer?
I assumed the story was going to be some variation of what you eventually said, hence my advice. You have zero rights, but also zero responsibility which given their age is a break however fond of them you may be. She’s the mother. If she’s a classless pig, they’ll be raised by a classless pig with all the generational dysfunction to look forward to. You aren’t going to save them from her bad choices. She is done with you and she’s moved on and you’ll have to or end up in a bad spot. You don’t exactly have a flawless past. You don’t want to get into a pissing match that you’ll lose. What her parents or anyone else care about is irrelevant for the most part. It’s their job to monitor her involvement with this guy if he has a history of weird kid shit. It’s their grandchildren.
Fuck around and she’ll be saying you touched her daughters and you’ll find yourself in a much worse spot. Just move the fuck on.
Buy her a Boa Constrictor. I hear they are all the rage these days
it feels like 3 years wasted.. I was used because she knew I was a good man, and so she knew I was taking good care of her girls. It hurts because I thought her and I were going to make it, over the long-run. You know I left poker, the forums for her and so maybe I just brought this here because I didnt do anything but love her and those girls as my own. Im so mad at myself, and im an intelligent guy, its liek she used me ,she used me fo rmy love, my heart my intelligence and for nothing.Quote:
Originally Posted by BCR
So many thoughts are going through my head, but I care, I care about her kids who dont understand their mother is making irrational decisions and they deserve better... Her mother and I are talking, she knows, we are good, and on the same page its like this guy cast a spell over her, and I dont know what my next move is. Honestly I want to hurt him...
OK PFA, im taking a big risk here, but since he was convicted of aggravated child abuse, and actually the original charge was Rape of a chil (6 years old) and imo, hes a child molester. The only reason, if you read that article he was able to plead to the aggravated child abuse, is because the parents of the kid who it happened too, didnt let her take the stand against him. He got off, wel he didnt get off, but he didnt get LIFE because that little girls parents didnt want to traumatize her further. I understand that, but its lef tthis gross pig out on our streets. And now somehow hes involved himself in my world...
This is him-
https://www.dailycommercial.com/news...apes-jail-time
I think you all know im a talented poker player and ive ben in trouble, i dont want no trouble, but Im so hurt and confused how this could happen. I poured my love into her and the girls, its not fair to them little girls. They are so innocent, they know there real dad isnt in their life, and it breaks my heart. They asked me after 2 years can we call you dad, but with that the one said, we know who are dad is and since hes not in out life and you are, can we call you our dad... That hurts me... You have no clue, these little girls just want a fatehr figure, and I was giving that to them. Now its so crazy, its uh.. Its so unstable.
chick is a trainwreck and can't help herself from making bad decisions. its a compliment that she's ditching u cuz ur not enough of a pos WELL DONE
You should def run for the hills.
But this guy she's banging behind your back raped a kid under 12...what the fuck. Be a sneaky fucker, figure out his exact terms of probation and get him locked up. You don't want him moving into your old spot with 3 young children.
Please move on and leave her. BCR is spot on. You will only get more and more fucked here and given your mental illness and inability to control yourself this will only end in a bad way if you don'. Stop thinking about the kids and think about your wellbeing. Leave her you dumb fuck, please? You will end up in jail again if you stay.
Also, SHUT UP GARRETT.
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Originally Posted by garrett
This is worse than I expected, but ultimately up to her family to monitor. I can understand how sick this is, but distance yourself from the situation. If you feel compelled to talk about their welfare, do it through her parents. You don’t want a girl/mother who would fall for this guy. I don’t care what bs he fed her. Just get away from her. You’ll end up in jail over this situation, in some form of manner, if you stay involved.
Alex Rocha and I have known one another so far back, before he ever made a dime, he ised to sleep on my couch at Rutgers-Newark... But hey you seem to think im a piece of shit, you are soo wrong.Quote:
Originally Posted by duped_samaritan
It is probably one of the things you and I have agreed upon, and honestly im humiliated, but I was able to share that with you all because it is public record.
Im done, on so many levels, and you should talk to Alex Rocha and ask him about Josh (Rutgers Newark)... Alex and I were friends before she made them scores hes really talented player. He deserves... anyway I only gave you that carrot so you know, and when you talk to Alex hell let you know.. OI have never asked Alex Rocha for a stake, because unless you can make your own money in the game you dont belong there.. So I guess I dont belong.
Alex Rocha is the pro, if I go to Vegas and I get MTT strat from, its gonna be Alex.
You're an insider but Alex Rocha and I are close... Believe in yourself.Quote:
Originally Posted by duped_samaritan
This will not end well lol
Handicapme while you have been this insignificant person who just reads this board, and wants people to think you matter. Ill promise you handicap-me, you are insignificant. Alex Rocha and I used to play underground poker game sin New York City, before he was even 21.. He is a worl;d class player now, but hey what are you fucker. You just do your thing in life, if you believe in your ability then practice your craft....Quote:
Originally Posted by handicapme
Handicapme lets put some money on the line
How did this thread turn into Garrett being a talented poker player and Alex Rocha?
Get a fucking grip man
[I]l tell half you fucking half asses...Quote:
Originally Posted by RealTalk
C$ miss you sir...
C$... I ill win just give me a few chances, i need to build a stack.. You cant run deep in the WSOP without a stack, you have to get a stack...
This is either a level for attention or you're off your meds. I tried.Quote:
Originally Posted by garrettHandicapme while you have been this insignificant person who just reads this board, and wants people to think you matter. Ill promise you handicap-me, you are insignificant. Alex Rocha and I used to play underground poker game sin New York City, before he was even 21.. He is a worl;d class player now, but hey what are you fucker. You just do your thing in life, if you believe in your ability then practice your craft....Quote:
Originally Posted by handicapme
Handicapme lets put some money on the line
Will enjoy seeing your mugshot in a few months if real.
Perhaps a ruse for a stake? The WSOP is coming up soon.Quote:
Originally Posted by handicapmeThis is either a level for attention or you're off your a meds. I tried.Quote:
Originally Posted by garrett
Will enjoy seeing your mugshot in a few months if real.
Nah that's Michael's shtick... speaking of which he's 2months late for his normal cameo....Quote:
Originally Posted by TellafriendPerhaps a ruse for a stake? The WSOP is coming up soon.Quote:
Originally Posted by handicapme
You are sooo lost, its crazy, yo uhave no clue how good I am.Quote:
Originally Posted by handicapmeNah that's Michael's shtick... speaking of which he's 2months late for his normal cameo....Quote:
Originally Posted by Tellafriend
In the poker game of life...women are the fucking rake
can you imagine what garrett must be like irl that this girl's like yeah, no thanks, i'm taking my kids and we're moving in with an actual child rapist
3 .5 years old? just about when the kid is toilet trained and longer needs diaper changing, so it can go to headstart now
sorry, but mom doesn't need you so much anymore with the baby, so she won't continue to endure you
I hope you poked her plenty during your time together, I doubt you will again
your play: stop paying anything for her and the kids, have your stuff packed, update you tinder profile, go out Friday/Saturday night, aim higher next time (even going alternative is better)
and don't worry about her, she's gonna repeat the cycle of getting knocked up, then finding a chump to help her raise the kid
As someone pointed out, he might actually be too normal. I have extended family members that sound like this chick.Quote:
Originally Posted by blake
I have an extended family member who domesticated with this chick who had a drug problem in the past, but was clean when he met her. Anyways, they had 3 kids and everything was going ok. He had a steady job and she stayed home and took care of the kids, and there was no abuse or anything.
Then one day out of the blue she started tweaking again, left the dad for some druggie who was giving her drugs, and it all fell apart. Now she is a junkie and the kids are staying at the dad's moms house and it is just a mess.
Wow, I for one am shocked. You mean to tell me Garrett’s GF isn’t stable? I’m dumbfounded
Too soon sizzle
your play to regain her heart is to get busy raping.
:whatQuote:
Originally Posted by garrett
Garrett listen to me carefully my friend because only I can save your relationship, only I can do that.
Listen to me.
Are you ready?
Ok. Garrett.
She upgraded from you to a child rapist.
My first question is, what set this whole thing off and caused her to do this? Is she some kind of a herpetologist?
I mean, did she read the PFA thread, realize you don't know shit about snakes where you live and got your ass handed to you by people who dont even live there, and said - fuck this, im outta here?
You have to consider all circumstances
Just sayin
Aside from that, if that isn't the case, going forward in this, yields you to possibly have more destructive landmines at your feet than what Fakhir Berwari had when he was digging up the hundreds of mines in all of his years in Iraq. Translation: walk away...run if you can.
If these people really are what you make them out to be, then they, sooner or later will receive their comeuppance.
Sooner or later, what goes around comes around. Bank on it.
The 3.5 year old won't remember you after a short time once you leave.
Most people remember very little, if anything, from before they're 4. Benjamin, who is 8, only remembers bits and pieces of things from before 4 right now.
The twin 8-year-olds will miss you at first, but they will get over it.
While it's sad that the mom is so fucked up and is associating with an actual child rapist, there's little you can do besides run off and perhaps report to the authorities that he's around kids again.
While I think you have good intentions with this whole thing, and it's noble of you to want to help with these young girls, this is the last thing you need. You don't exactly have a history of life stability yourself, so you really don't want someone else causing new complications for you.
Todge bottom dollar us on renaming your child Menjamin
I have a secret love for a person that could be your friend's ex. It's a really shitty position to be in. She is very, very, very attractive. I know how it would end if it ever started but I would have no choice but to let it run its course.Quote:
Originally Posted by verminaard