This is hogwash. You a therapist or something, scammer?
Old pic I just came across:
http://i1139.photobucket.com/albums/...tootsdruff.jpg
i just cannot envisage druff trying pleasuring a woman, and this is from a male with a vivid imagination
* nauseated*
I think some of the confusion comes from the fact that Miri and I got back together in October of that year. (We ultimately broke up for the final time in the spring of 2009.)
The break-up was not publicized on NWP, but select people knew about it privately.
Jewdonk actually found out about it through some snake-in-the-grass (and had been crowing about it on the forums), but nobody believed him because he had no credibility. He was like the boy who cried wolf. He had lied about me so many times that nobody believed him the one time he was telling the truth.
When he found out a warped version of the toots story, he brought it out on NWP. In that same post, Jewdonk again mentioned that Miri and I had broken up. Even Marty wasn't claiming I was cheating on Miri (and you KNOW he would have made a huge deal about it if he thought I was.)
Not wanting to give him any satisfaction for breaking a story from my personal life, I downplayed the reason for the Texas visit . Regarding Miri, I responded, "Miri was sitting right next to me as we did NWP Radio on Wednesday, and I just got back from playing blackjack with her at my side and eating dinner with her. So you can take your lame speculation and shove it up your ass."
That was posted in October. We hadn't actually gotten back together at that point, but we were hanging out again and it was going in that direction. I didn't feel like explaining the whole situation with Miri because it was none of anyone's business, and I also wanted to tilt Jewdonk.
Brandon was aware of all or most of the above, and can verify it. Even Micon will verify that I was broken up with Miri before ever talking to toots -- at least if he's in a truth-telling mood.
Miri was fully aware of the whole story about toots and my visit to Texas when we got back together in October.
Just saw this in someone's signature. Druff, can you explain?
toots777 wrote:
All of my personal info was being threatened behind the scenes so I jumped ship for a while. It has been handled and now I am back. Didn't mean to cut out but have a little one to protect.
GAMBLE-BOT wrote:
Let me assure you that Toots would be a banning first round draft pick if she ever announced her eligibility. Druff is not likely to allow her to speak freely.
You are butchering (badly) one of my most favorite phrases of all time: "Truth is self evident"
Todd you are too good a person to spend your time defending yourself from people like mwh. I tend to not have a problem with the guy, though I don't know him well, so I don't "get" how the hell you twist people like you do, but you do what you do well, I give you that. I guess I'd have to cross you to find out how or why a small percentage of people are just driven insane by you, but I don't see myself doing anything out of line, so I guess it will just remain a mystery.
Smart money is probably also that Marty is behind quite a bit of this, I mean it just literally could not be a coincidence all of your biggest trolls are also almost always in martys immediate presence. Not always, but by and large, that's my observation anyway.
I apologize if I am re-dredging stuff you've already been over. I genuinely missed this part of the story and since Druff offered to recount what actually went down in this thread, I thought it was a good time to catch up. I do recall hearing that Toots had said something about this, but Druff hasn't addressed it here as yet - I'm sure he has a legitimate explanation and it appears he wants this matter finally understood - hence this thread.
What do you want me to say?
Her best friend already came out a few weeks ago and posted that there's really nothing to see here, and that everyone's assumptions and conclusions about the situation were wrong.
I can't explain every little detail without violating her privacy and my own privacy, and frankly it's none of anyone's business.
I told this story in the original post just to assure people that I'm not some horrible victimizer of women, and that a lot of the stories repeated for 4 years on the internet (such as the claim that I threatened her after "rejecting" me) were absolutely false.
one thing i have bullshted druff but i have never said a bad thing about any girl he had. i did hate to see mira and druff break up after 7 years but never questioned it..when your sucessful in the poker world and have money. in life its hard to tell whos who.it takes a very down to earth girl to get druff.druff son will be in private schools from day 1
Fail. Toots doesn't need money. She loans it.
Sigh. Last time this is commented on unless Toots wants to get involved. Druff please erase any future threads or discussion on this subject unless Toots wants to join in, which may happen one day. I'm tired of defending toots/druff but i often feel like i must as toots is busy winning millions of dollars playing poker.
They initially liked eachother and talked a great deal on the phone. Then they met. Before anything developed...hurricane came and things didn't work out. There were no nefarious issues whatsoever associated with the meetup. The only source of problems was how things were handled a while AFTER the meetup. With things that neither side liked. That is between the two people who both want shit dropped forever and honestly anything else would be third hand hearsay. I comment on the meetup because I was partially there and there was nothing out of line or even disputed for the part that I wasn't there. They both did things that got on eachothers nerves. Toots acted like a woman. Druff acted like Druff. The worst you could say is that he doesn't spend much time in the South and acted accordingly. However, the accusations that he tried to force himself on Toots/made her feel physically uncomfortable OR that she would hookup with a guy she just met are both stupid, incorrect and offensive. Neither of those speculated actions happened.
I think simply the comment was that he acted like a California gentleman, which is a compliment. Toots expects a man to go farther in the gentleman department, which isn't a shortcoming of Druff, its just a taste for Southern dating manners. People outside the South don't have it. Again no knock on other regions, Even in Fort Worth where I live half the time, the southern manners aren't here, and thats fine as FW doesn't consider itself in the South. Toots and I are from the Louisiana border so I grew up running to open every door a woman walks through including the car doors, pumping gas and basically refusing to allow a woman to do any sort of physical work outside the bedroom. Its hard to do. Much of the time you are walking way out of your way to open the car door when she is getting out. I personally like a Southern Girl who WAITS on me to open the door EVERY time she gets out of it. I have never dated any other for any length of time. I guess its how you grow up. Its a custom just like its customary for people from Philadelphia to commit petty crimes.
Seriously though, Toots expects to be treated in a certain manner from her boyfriends and will get it. She had never dated anyone outside the region and learned quickly that anyone would be a project.
I heard that Druff and Toots were staying together and Todd fell asleep and Toots snuck dick pics of Todd while he was sleeping. she demanded 15k and 7% of his donkdown owenership or else she would expose him Micon/Brandon style. Druff demanded that he would not be blackmailed and threatened to tell people his new child was in fact, Toot's child. Toot's freaked out and erased the dick pics and the rest is history
all of the texan and alabama women I have met, I mean ALL (ok, Gamble's ex turned out a bit "off" in the end, my sympathies to Tim) have been absolutely charming. They actually seemed like they were born to please their men.
I didnt really get the feeling that they would be offended if men werent "gentlemen", because, frankly, most of the Alabama men I met were somewhat drunk clods, and the Texas men seemed to think that they were either God's gift or drunk clods.
So them southern belles aren't gold diggers, they just like a southern gentleman that won't let em work?
i guarantee that druff being a jew was the reason it didnt work out, as i couldnt imagine him spoiling a woman with frivolous gifts
Druff and Timble hit it off and had a little fling. why else would gargle-bot be so intent on setting the 'story' straight.
I know therre is 0% chance druff doesnt read this and this doesnt deserve its own thread so I ask Druff here......what are the chances you read this book?
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/08/14/bo...view.html?_r=1
I actually enjoy women like this, that enjoy being women. All the chivalrous stuff is how I was raised. No girl has ever warmed up her own car, opened the door, paid for anything, or had to do anything unpleasant besides sleeping with me in my company. However, when it comes time to make the adult decisions, if they want to be the belle, they need to shut up and trust that I'll continue to keep them comfortable without having the need for me to spell out every detail of how it works and make them think it's a democracy. I like the first part of your description, how are they on the second part? If I like the answer. I may have to spend some time in the real south, not that S. Florida shit where they are just transplanted girls from NY, Ohio, and Michigan.
Please Drk please refrain from posting shock pictures that violate this sites rules. I don't want to have to alert Der Kommandant.
Keep this type of material in IST where it belongs. Here is a palate cleanser:
http://i1139.photobucket.com/albums/...rico622121.jpg
http://i1139.photobucket.com/albums/...rico622122.jpg
http://i1139.photobucket.com/albums/...rico622124.jpg
http://i1139.photobucket.com/albums/...rico622125.jpg
http://i1139.photobucket.com/albums/...rico622127.jpg
http://i1139.photobucket.com/albums/...rico622128.jpg
Understood.
I withdrew from IST. Somebody was being a giant weenie and whining about my "affiliation" here, and that person felt I couldnt be trusted.
Damn, I wouldn't last 10 minutes in the South. I actually tend to go out of my way not to try to be too chivalrous cause I do not want to try to come off as creepy or desperate.