Gaymer getting cucked by some 3rd world sand n-word who can't speak English isn't exactly shocking.
Just remember you were basically sucking his cock the last time she kissed you.
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Gaymer getting cucked by some 3rd world sand n-word who can't speak English isn't exactly shocking.
Just remember you were basically sucking his cock the last time she kissed you.
serious question — does your gf know you’re a flat earther who does not believe dinosaurs are real?
if she does and she didn’t immediately leave you, that should be a much bigger red flag for you than her talking to her ex-bf
Too much overthinking going on here. Any woman sneaking texts to her ex or any other dude for that matter is a disposable play thing. You can't let that stuff bother you. Just use her for sex until she has had enough of you or catches you cheating (which you should now be doing).
So this. Throwing out threats of leaving is one of the worst things you can do in a relationship. Especially threats of cheating. It's the type of thing you can't take back as well.Quote:
Originally Posted by splitthis
Trying not to think of them both together is the key to your relationship passing this test.
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DING DING DINGQuote:
Originally Posted by splitthis
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The rest of the story is marginal. It seems that what she showed you is innocent enough (helping the guy fill out forms), though the lying about talking to him AND the unexplained "that's so cute" might be of concern.
However, any girl who demands "constant attention" isn't ready for a long-term relationship. Once you get past the first 2-3 months, constant attention from either side is very rare -- and in most cases, is unhealthy.
Sounds like she is best off staying out of relationships and just jumping from dude to dude every few months. Her threatening you to "find attention elsewhere" for not giving her enough is just LOL. Run fast.
She is sucking and fucking him every chance she gets
Split and druff nailed it.
It's one thing when you know someone needs constant attention and validation, its another entirely when they straight up tell you that if you don't give her that, she'll get it elsewhere. She's being incredibly honest right there. Keep in mind she said that even though she's never felt like this with anyone before, or whatever she said.
Impossible expectations that you can never fulfill.
Who gives a shit about the ex, that right there is why you should drop her.Quote:
Originally Posted by RegGaymerShe has previously said that if I don't give her constant attention then she will get it elsewhere, and I know she has plenty of admirers who want to get with her - so I can't lie in saying that there may be some insecurities there when these things happen.Quote:
Originally Posted by abrown83
At the end of the day tho I'm the one sleeping with her and she treats me well, so not gonna just drop it over some bs. Just curious if other guys would feel 100% trusting and cool with their woman doing favours for their ex - because if it was one of my exes asking me to spend hours sorting out their car insurance I would tell them where to go.
IMO ex partners should be left in the past and the door firmly shut!
Relationship is toast - start to detach yourself emotionally and begin pushing the envelope in the sex department before things unravel and you get cucked.
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Originally Posted by blake
wow nice job changing my question.
its weird because usually only the most stable and trustworthy women are attracted to professional suntan lotion salesmen who deny dinosaurs existed and believe the earth is flat.
So fucking thisQuote:
Originally Posted by mulvayou're caring for her too much to soon. you're not married to her, you're dating her. you have to be able to walk away from this shit and not let it effect you emotionally. chicks will fuck with your mind and drop you like a sack of potatoes.Quote:
Originally Posted by RegGaymer
Don't be with someone just to be with someone. It never works and you will get fucked over and be miserable. Be with the right person.Quote:
Originally Posted by RegGaymerI've known her for 6 months, been dating for 3 months, and been offish for 1 month spending every day together. Maybe that's too soon to be catching feelings, I dunno.Quote:
Originally Posted by mulva
Like Belly says, I'd rather be dating her than Pam.
It's a tricky 1.
Persians are second only to Filipinos in the sliminess, cheating and trying to fuck another dude's girl department. Their exes are like putty in their hands. It's not you, it's them. Give her anal, facial, whatever nasty shit turns you on and then GTFO.Quote:
Originally Posted by RegGaymerI'm Irish, live in England, she and her exes are Iranian. So not quite Arabic, Persian, close tho.Quote:
Originally Posted by Brittney Griner's Clit
Didn't read the replies, so not sure if someone else has already said this, or if new details have come out but all fighting with her about it will do is push her away.
Got to let her do what she is going to do.
If she is going to cheat on you with her ex BF, there isn't much you can do about it.
The best thing to do would ask her to just be honest with you, even more so if they ever hang out in person.
Don't snoop on her messages or be controlling, she will resent you. If you have to do this, you don't trust her, break it off.
It's been 2 years, but how long did they date for, and why did they break up. Does he live locally?
I'm good friends with 2 ex-girlfriends, and would resent someone new saying I can't be friends with either of them, but I also know that both relationships are over.
She's still in the infatuation stage. You're perfect and better than any guy from before and she's totally happy. Reality will set in. Maybe she really will want to be with you long term but the cutesy texting with her ex is not a good sign.Quote:
Originally Posted by RegGaymer
She's Persian so she probably sucks a mean dick.Quote:
Originally Posted by jsearles22
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Originally Posted by sonatine
I know it gets my panties moist.
Let's face it mate, she's been cocked more times than John Wayne's rifle
You some kind of pedo, ten year aniverasry would make her 11 ,Quote:
Originally Posted by Lord of the Fraud
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Originally Posted by Lord of the Fraud
I had dinner with Kurt Vonnegut shortly before he passed. I clocked him at a full 50 years older than his gf, and no one batted an eyelash.
You're in good company, just eat in classier restaurants.
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Originally Posted by hardeightYou some kind of pedo, ten year aniverasry would make her 11 ,Quote:
Originally Posted by Lord of the Fraud
Jeez lighten up, you remind me of her mother.
We waited at least two years before going the whole way.
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Originally Posted by hardeightYou some kind of pedo, ten year aniverasry would make her 11 ,Quote:
Originally Posted by Lord of the Fraud
She’s had more pricks than a dart board in a Dublin pubQuote:
Originally Posted by Starbucks Spunk Bucket
really really good adviceQuote:
Originally Posted by BlunderMaker
wait, how the fuck does she get messages on her phone if the earth is flat? This whole story is bullshit
Noah sent out a raven.Quote:
Originally Posted by nunbeater
Enjoy the steady sex & the good treatment & keep your options open.
Good move moving in with her. Easier to split that way than having to kick someone out.
This is the correct answer. Sadly women like this usually put guys like you through the grinder. I know, it happened to me in my early 20's and I never let it happen again.Quote:
Originally Posted by BlunderMaker
She's hiding messages for a fucking obvious reason 'awww that's so cute' obviously means they were chatting in an inappropriate way. Unfortunately you'll probably just fall deeper for this cunt and she will torture you until it blows up.
he already has the hook in his mouth and upset about this. enough so that he spent an afternoon drinking thinking about it. it's time to move on just because of that or lay down the law on what;s acceptable if she wants to be with him.Quote:
Originally Posted by peter mcneilThis is the correct answer. Sadly women like this usually put guys like you through the grinder. I know, it happened to me in my early 20's and I never let it happen again.Quote:
Originally Posted by BlunderMaker
She's hiding messages for a fucking obvious reason 'awww that's so cute' obviously means they were chatting in an inappropriate way. Unfortunately you'll probably just fall deeper for this cunt and she will torture you until it blows up.
he prolly let his feelings known to her and she'll appease him and make him feel better short term. but make no doubt this behavior will creep back into the picture.
I don't think laying the law down works with women like this. She has admitted she's addicted to attention. She was obviously texting inappropriately with her ex and deleted those messages. When you're the guy in this spot it's so fucking hard to see things rationally. Everyone else knows what she's all about but he's probably going to have to go through hell with this cunt and find out for himself.
As true as a diamond is hard. If he can learn from other's mistakes in this situation, he's a better man than most.Quote:
Originally Posted by peter mcneil
well,..they are living together. people can change and somethmes say what they don;t mean. but only going out for a couple months makes things dicey and unpredictable.Quote:
Originally Posted by peter mcneil
look at mort for example. he's goes out of his way to avoid confrontations. i know this becuse he said it on the internetz
My first serious girlfriend was exactly this type of woman. Loved the mirror, always dressed in the hippest clothing, loved to get checked out and often returned the eye contact. She turned me into a fucking crazy man for 3 years. I never messed with another woman like this, I feel like I can see them a mile away.Quote:
Originally Posted by Crowe DiddlyAs true as a diamond is hard. If he can learn from other's mistakes in this situation, he's a better man than most.Quote:
Originally Posted by peter mcneil
It was a damn good lesson for me early in life. After that I married a very maternal, home body type. I'm lucky that she's gorgeous but she doesn't see herself that way. She's just a damn good mom and wife and I haven't spent a second in our relationship worrying about any foul play.
Of course there are exceptions to every rule but I'd take a bet that this girl puts him through hell. I don't think good women commit to someone then erase texts and admit they need a ton of attention or they will find it elsewhere, That shit seems pathological to me.Quote:
Originally Posted by mulvawell,..they are living together. people can change and somethmes say what they don;t mean. but only going out for a couple months makes things dicey and unpredictable.Quote:
Originally Posted by peter mcneil
look at mort for example. he's goes out of his way to avoid confrontations. i know this becuse he said it on the internetz
she already started putting him though hell. and nonsense, women commit when they want to. you just have to tame dem mustangs.Quote:
Originally Posted by peter mcneilOf course there are exceptions to every rule but I'd take a bet that this girl puts him through hell. I don't think good women commit to someone then erase texts and admit they need a ton of attention or they will find it elsewhere, That shit seems pathological to me.Quote:
Originally Posted by mulva
^ Wisdom right here folks ^Quote:
Originally Posted by peter mcneil