"It's all about who gets who first"
"It's all about who gets who first"
this is a classic wailwoad scenario
crank up the heat as high as it will go and wait him out
Originally Posted by WillieMcFML
I'd go the other way with it, have the gas and electric turned off and move into a hotel for a couple of weeks.
Yes. I was trying to be explicit that she finds the hotel and pays for the month. He provides the credit card required by front desk.I was going to agree with you. $2k isn't THAT much to rid yourself of a headache.
That being said what if he blows through that in a week? Then he comes back?
No fucking cash except for food.
She had a change of heart or whatever and wants him out now. Paying is kind of fair & she still has control. She's not handing out cash prizes for first place. She's being "understanding" she can claim.
BNP reminded me this tool has a gun and not a lot of judgement. This blows but Bonnie & Clyde, right?
Split will be the first to admit she knew what she was dealing with and now she's gonna pay.
You were writing about loans BNP. There are no loans. Splithis is gonna just be making withdrawals and keeping records. Money is gone.
She woulda been supporting him anyway next couple of months so what's the difference.
The obvious inference is that when he accepts the money, he signs paperwork indicating hes ghost in 30 days. Or whatever they decide on.
"Birds born in a cage think flying is an illness." - Alejandro Jodorowsky
"America is not so much a nightmare as a non-dream. The American non-dream is precisely a move to wipe the dream out of existence. The dream is a spontaneous happening and therefore dangerous to a control system set up by the non-dreamers." -- William S. Burroughs
which is exactly why you don't negotiate with terrorists
give him 2k and 30 days, guess who's gonna still be there on the 31st?
giving him 2k and then still having to pay out the ass to get an eviction is about the worst outcome outside of someone dying
and real talk the odds of split going back to this guy are a huge favorite anyway
there's no easy right answer, but there's a ton of bad outcomes
Yeah. This guy seems unstable and he has nothing to lose.....that is a horrible combination.which is exactly why you don't negotiate with terrorists
give him 2k and 30 days, guess who's gonna still be there on the 31st?
giving him 2k and then still having to pay out the ass to get an eviction is about the worst outcome outside of someone dying
and real talk the odds of split going back to this guy are a huge favorite anyway
there's no easy right answer, but there's a ton of bad outcomes
I have had Issues with credit cards in Europe
invite a couple of well endowed negro gents over and when he walks in they are spit roasting you in the living room, then tell him my house my rules biaaaatccchh
Nothing says "get the fuck out of my house" like a guy walking in while his girl is getting tag teamed by Jamal and Latrell.
I have had Issues with credit cards in Europe
Give him the money and get him the fuck out.Does he still have the gun? If so you need to do something about that, what idk but if he is unstable and drinks?? That's obv a terrible combo,tough spot, sanlmar, and vegas, made some pretty good suggestions. Do you have a brother?Do you have any friends that are cops?
take out all the shit you value, get the eviction and stay with a relative/friend for the month. during this eviction notice period get a personal protection order. might want to get yourself some mace/gun etc. if you feel like you're still in danger, move and cut off any ties he would have with you.
Tough love is the only thing broken hearted/broke men understand. If your boyfriend is driving your car and dropping you off at your job. Things that make you go hmmmm?
Last edited by thesparten; 03-15-2015 at 04:26 AM.
Why did you have to bring that up, bad memories but it was actually shanequa eating my chick out.. in hindsight it was a favor..I never knew my chick was white trash and belong on Springer..I'm grateful it happened.Nothing says "get the fuck out of my house" like a guy walking in while his girl is getting tag teamed by Jamal and Latrell.
The morning brings an interesting dilemma. He worked last night and hasn't been home since which I am glad for on one hand. On the other hand he has medications he has to take for heart issues which are here and am certain he doesn't have with him, some which he should have had last night. I do not want to call him. Not sure what to do here, call his family? wait it out? Crap.
Hope he dies obv.
Now you care about him? I thought you wanted to clean his brains of your walls? DO NOT CALL! Shows weakness.
Nothing says "get the fuck out of my house" like a guy walking in while his girl is getting tag teamed by Jamal and Latrell.
It's hilarious that we as a society think everyone can be a dr, a lawyer, an engineer. Some people are just fucking stupid. Why can't we just accept that?
This is the point where it's not your problem anymore and can't allow yourself to continue to take care and enable him. It's like cutting off a drug addict.
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Day filled with groveling, closed bedroom door with clicking gun noises. I said I just want you out as fast and peaceful as possible.
I never said yet why he has to goooooooooo.
My stomach feels sick thinking about it.
I dropped my tablet and broke it a couple weeks ago. I have been using his Apple until I get another. so apples are connected to iPhones. Friday I saw a bunch of messages on his Apple from his iPhone. I click on a bunch just random bs about poker games scheduled until....................
I click on a message back in November when he had gone hunting. It was him and some hooker who was ugly, black, fat, and tatted. They were going back and forth about price. he wanted BAREBACK sex with her. he wanted to pay 50 which she declined. she wanted 100 for bareback which she says she doesn't usually do but needs the money. he tried to negotiate down to 60, then 70 which she declined.
I may pay him to leave as opposed to wait it out cuz the level of internal sickness I feel is not worth it.
you should really consider shacking up with less sketchy dudes.
i get it, but seriously.
"Birds born in a cage think flying is an illness." - Alejandro Jodorowsky
"America is not so much a nightmare as a non-dream. The American non-dream is precisely a move to wipe the dream out of existence. The dream is a spontaneous happening and therefore dangerous to a control system set up by the non-dreamers." -- William S. Burroughs
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